NomiCA
December 1, 2011, 5:13pm
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and what if you find out she is a chawal after all that effort :no:
sajid20
December 1, 2011, 5:15pm
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Is she a tooo religious Muslim or belongs to the family that takes Quran way too seriously ?! If so, then call her brother and tell him that you are fed up of this mehram na-mehram thingy, before marriage. Lets sit together in tahajjud and pray to Allah swt to change HIS rules only for this exceptional friendship story.
If no angel comes to bring the approval, the next step would be to convince her to make a bit of changes in her beliefs...
don't know much about it but yes i never saw her talking with a boy
sajid20
December 1, 2011, 5:17pm
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to be honest with you. if she is such kind of girl then you should not follow her or being chipko.
forget her and find another gal, who willing to be your pal.
it's not about just a girl, it's about my liking and i am not chipko at all:)
Re: Need a little help regarding friendship:)
If you go to her while she is walking out the gate of the university and hand her your email address/phone number, you know what she will do? She will think you’re a creeper, she will tell her friends what you did, and they will for the rest of your college career make fun of you.
Meray bhai, don’t even think about that move. Ever. Anywhere. In the world. It’s ridiculous and frankly it’s creepy. You don’t want her fraanship alone, because if you did, you would have had no problem talking to her. So I suggest that you clear that stance with your own self first. If you are really adamant about getting to know her a bit more, talk to her when she is with her friends to put her at ease. Talk about an assignment, the professor whatever it is. Don’t corner her alone. She will never like it. Get to know her with friends, and through that you can slip her oyur phone number/email/facebook/orkut whatever. Stop stalking her btw.
:k:
sajid20
December 1, 2011, 5:29pm
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If you go to her while she is walking out the gate of the university and hand her your email address/phone number, you know what she will do? She will think you’re a creeper, she will tell her friends what you did, and they will for the rest of your college career make fun of you.
Meray bhai, don’t even think about that move. Ever. Anywhere. In the world. It’s ridiculous and frankly it’s creepy. You don’t want her fraanship alone, because if you did, you would have had no problem talking to her. So I suggest that you clear that stance with your own self first. If you are really adamant about getting to know her a bit more, talk to her when she is with her friends to put her at ease. Talk about an assignment, the professor whatever it is. Don’t corner her alone. She will never like it. Get to know her with friends, and through that you can slip her oyur phone number/email/facebook/orkut whatever. Stop stalking her btw.
my sister i am not stalking her, just some time looks at her face with love
sajid20
December 1, 2011, 5:36pm
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If you cannot, then the best thing to do is to befriend a friend of hers. Get to know that friend well and perhaps approach her through that friend. Let the friend be the one to praise you and make an introduction. That is a better way to go about it. It's longer, but better.
i want to reach her directly, don't like to make any sisy in uni
sajid20
December 1, 2011, 5:36pm
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chawal? sorry i didn’t get it
STA
December 1, 2011, 5:47pm
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chawal? sorry i didn't get it
tum bhi chawal niklay. :@:
Re: Need a little help regarding friendship:)
sajid,
its chaawal
meaning rice
u know rice needs a lot of water to grow thats what he means by chaawal
chawal? sorry i didn't get it
Re: Need a little help regarding friendship:)
Kyun behla rahen hen bachay ko?
sajid,
its chaawal
meaning rice
u know rice needs a lot of water to grow thats what he means by chaawal
Khumar
December 1, 2011, 6:03pm
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Yeah, you want to be her bf for sure. That’s not called FRAANSHIP.
Re: Need a little help regarding friendship:)
sajid you make me sad brother :(
look at what ppl r saying
Kyun behla rahen hen bachay ko?
STA
December 1, 2011, 6:10pm
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sajid, if you want to look at her with love to your bachi, then you need to be a mehram for her.
either brother or husband.
In your case, you cant be brother, so try to get shadi shuda with her. :@:
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Aww kitna sweet boy hai… nani nani c khawaishien
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Can we all behave like adults for once and reply the OP without mocking at him. Thanks
Mirch
December 1, 2011, 6:23pm
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If you go to her while she is walking out the gate of the university and hand her your email address/phone number, you know what she will do? She will think you’re a creeper, she will tell her friends what you did, and they will for the rest of your college career make fun of you.
Meray bhai, don’t even think about that move. Ever. Anywhere. In the world. It’s ridiculous and frankly it’s creepy. You don’t want her fraanship alone, because if you did, you would have had no problem talking to her. So I suggest that you clear that stance with your own self first. If you are really adamant about getting to know her a bit more, talk to her when she is with her friends to put her at ease. Talk about an assignment, the professor whatever it is. Don’t corner her alone. She will never like it. Get to know her with friends, and through that you can slip her oyur phone number/email/facebook/orkut whatever. Stop stalking her btw.
For a murgi it is lot of wisdom.
Re: Need a little help regarding friendship:)
mujhe tu seriously mein sweet lag raha hai! i find it cute how he wants to look at her with love. thats sweet
Re: Need a little help regarding friendship:)
Sajid20, some very good points in these posts. Please pay attention.
Use formula no 212 - section B :
As you stated that she is good at studies - so my child , go to her asking for help , ask her politely if she cares to share the notes of the subject you find difficult …
try to chase her in library … and around your department’s lawn … when she sits with her friend during break time…
if it doesnt work straight away then use section C of the same formula …
pick one of her friend , and make her your college sister …and then one fine day , with some tears in your eyes , ask her to help you in this regard ..
Yea aj kaal ki generation bi na - sala ek larki ko woo karna nahii atah … ! online forums pe akay help manGte haiN - abey jab hum tumharii Umar k thay na - well we better dont go there
Ask her about some notes or book. Initiate a convo and take it from there. If she is in your class then i am sure you both will get many chances to talk to each other. thora sabar karo.
The guy who is my best friend now from like 10 yrs. we met in Uni. I missed one class for some reasons. This friend of mine (was not friend at that time) came to me and said Oh tum ne class miss kar di. aaj tou bohat important chapter tha. then he said do not worry I will share my notes. here is my phone number, give me call in evening and i will explain."
No Nisha it won’t work if he offers to hold her books or walk with her with out any friendship. I am sure she will not like it. Instead start your friendship with her by asking for notes or lectures. Its a best approach and it works most of the time :p. after two or three times of lein dein of notes or lectures, ask her permission for adding her on fb so that you can discuss lectures in detail with her. When you start chatting with her ask for her number when you feel that she has started trusting you. After this i am sure you will not need more advice seriously.
Best of luck.
This girl is a “type”. She does not mingle with boys at all and therefore would probably hang around with similar minded girls. And if she were to be approached in such a manner, it would mean scandal for her. This type of girl will be judged by her peers (since they are similar ie not mingling with guys) and would be singled out for befriending a guy.
Stay away
If you go to her while she is walking out the gate of the university and hand her your email address/phone number, you know what she will do? She will think you’re a creeper, she will tell her friends what you did, and they will for the rest of your college career make fun of you.
Meray bhai, don’t even think about that move. Ever. Anywhere. In the world. It’s ridiculous and frankly it’s creepy. You don’t want her fraanship alone, because if you did, you would have had no problem talking to her. So I suggest that you clear that stance with your own self first. If you are really adamant about getting to know her a bit more, talk to her when she is with her friends to put her at ease. Talk about an assignment, the professor whatever it is. Don’t corner her alone. She will never like it. Get to know her with friends, and through that you can slip her oyur phone number/email/facebook/orkut whatever. Stop stalking her btw.
If you cannot, then the best thing to do is to befriend a friend of hers. Get to know that friend well and perhaps approach her through that friend. Let the friend be the one to praise you and make an introduction. That is a better way to go about it. It’s longer, but better.
Re: Need a little help regarding friendship:)
ZK, most guys are sweet or corny?
STA
December 1, 2011, 6:34pm
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guyz are always sweet, but some girls dont have taste bud to identify. :@:
like sajid is trying hard, but no progress. :@:
anyways, i am not gonna do any thing cheap as dont wanna lost her
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nt corny like how most guys are!!! :halo: