Dear all
its been a while since i posted here.
last time i posted it was regarding marrying a bangladesh guy.
i thought i wouls post an update to what happened.
Ok long story short, im pakistani girl that wanted to marry a bengali guy.
I was due to get married to a bengali guy, who was very confident that his parents would approve of the marriage, however it turns out they don’t. The whole time 6 years, we’ve been seeing each other, he was very distant from his family, and his parents treated him quite bad, anyways i stood by him through thick and thin.
I was hoping he would stand up for me, but it seems like he has changed, and would rather his parents fix his marriage rather than the hassle in the long term.
I don’t understand why when pakistani guys get married to bengali girls things are fine, plus both parties stick up for each other- correct me if im wrong, but i have seen a few cases.
What i’m trying to say is, are some guys that are weak they can’t stand up for themselves.
P.s we bought a house, so even without his parent approval we could have done our own thing.
I feel he will come begging after he realises, but it will be tool late by then.
I thought id share this before it happens to someone else.
Still upset but i know i have to move on and not look back. Anyway lesson learnt the hard way.