Re: My significant other
Definitely, lol, may he be all you wish him to be..
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yeh.. i feel u ..
my tall dark and handsome .. ALL MINE 
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Minah Pa you need to teach some classes to the women on GS :k:
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MQ, for your sake I pray to Allah that you dont fall in love.
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Why not? Thats downright cruel! (Im going to use another wish right about now.)
MuNiYa— Hes all yours.
Rukhsar-- my guy will not go after other women, and if he does our reationship is going to be very short.I will make sure of it. 
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There is a difference between going after other women and admiring a thing of beauty. I am not sure about the guys you date MQ, but most guys don;t go and hump the tv when they see Heidi Klum in a VS ad.
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You wont understand unless you actually fall in love. Do let me know when you do and I will bring up this thread. If at that time you still feel the same then let me tell you it is not true love.
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MQ, how is looking connected to going after another woman?
minah has one of the most sensible replies here.. :k: i love reading ur posts minah! and i know the “flirting” ur talking about.. it happens in every workplace… i prob wont even call it flirting.. its just a bit of tongue-in-cheek type of conversation..
As some people already pointed out, its bout trust.. and having a grip on ur feelings that may result in jealousy and obsessiveness if u dont control them in the beginning…
personally, i think its also related to insecurity…
Re: My significant other
very true :k:
MQ, dont ponder too much about such stuff until you do find a guy that u fall in love with.. what u think u may feel now if ur potential spouse/lover did something.. will change quite dramatically once u actually do find someone..
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So what exactly are you implying? And how would you know about my love more than I would know?
matsui-- I never said you’re not allowed to look at another woman. Yes I have seen beautiful people ( since we’re obviously talking about physical beauty here)and I know thats nothing out of the ordinary. Im talking more so about flirting. heck I dont live in a cave, yes I know men watch women on tv and they see and do a whole lot of other things where women other then their significant halfs are involved. Im talking about commitments. Ive had married men flirt with me, and trust me I would have slapped them if I didnt have some control over my temper.
Sadzz— I trust people. And yes the ones I trust live up to that trust. As for insecure, well lets just say in terms of my looks and personality , Im very fine. In fact Im a snob when it comes to what I think about my great attributes.
Plus you people dont have a clue as to whether Ive found him or not.
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mq..i wasnt joking...men will be men..they will always check out other hot women as long as everything is working fine down there
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MQ, if u had found him and were in love.. it prob would not even bother u as to whether he looked...
ur initial post suggested only looking.. not flirting.. hence the reason why so many people jumped at it..
im glad u do think ur great and all that, but ive found that sometimes insecurity increases when a person thinks so highyl of themselves.. and no, im not referring to u.. just friends i know who are absolutely gorgeous but are so insecure bout themselves.. and the people they seem to think they love..
neways... dont u flirt?
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why would I flirt? And if I found him its highly likely that I'll want him all to myself. You wouldnt understand. nevermind. Yeah I think highly of myself, so ? I just dont impose that on others? No Im still not insecure.
lussi-- dont ruin my romantic thoughts. :p
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There is nothing wrong with innocent flirtation MQ. It is an inherent attribute. Maybe married men flirt withyou becuase they think you frigid or something and want to illicit a reponse. Smack them…that will teach them there is a little bit of fire under that burqa. :love:
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excuse me??
MQ, lets not get into who flirts and who doesnt… ive seen u flirt.. maybe our definitions maybe a bit different though… i dunno
theres no point.. khush raho
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Aww Im so glad I did something right in your eyes. 
matsui-- LOL. You have been thinking too much about my burqa of late. Get away.
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MQ.... judgements are a no no
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You say I flirt and you're telling me judgements are a no no? I didnt force you into my thread, and damn right Im sick and tired of people derailing it. Stick with the topic or leave.
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MQ, I wasnt judging u nor attempting to derail the thread... i simply made an observation which related very much to the topic .. and im assuming we were/are discussing flirting and the significant other..
neways.. i understand my posts arent really welcomed in ur threads... so again, khush raho
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I don’t understand girls (nobody has ever accomplished this task to this date). If someone likes (loves) you, do you expect them to close their eyes and look at other women at all, whatsoever? 
I know girls check out guys too, they just don’t admit it. If you tell them well hey, you were checking out guys too, then they would say “honey, I love you! Don’t you trust me? You can’t be narrow minded, you don’t trust me” and bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla blah!
Edit: Flirting is something different. But to just look at the opposite gender and maybe comment on how pretty that girl is, is something different and I don’t see what’s wrong with that. But ofcourse no flirting after marriage.