Oh My Goodness!!! How many more threads are you going to open JUST about your pictures? Do you really need to open up 5 threads a day to whine and complain, I mean how big of a disaster was this wedding that you need all these threads to make you feel better?!
People here are not psychiatrists that they can just make you feel better about a wedding that was 6 years ago, and this is a wedding forum if you haven't noticed. If you are not able to get over your shaadi even after 6 years, what can people do here for you?! You can't bring the day back so just take peoples advice and do something to make yourself happy. Can you stop creating all these useless threads because it's getting really irritating! We log in here to discuss wedding ideas, not to offer therapy sessions. If you need to vent, start writing in the blogs here and you will get your audience.
ami you guys should definitely dress up (in 2-3 different styles of outfits) and have a fun photoshoot....you ll forget about the 'bad photography' (which its NOT) done that day.
you re really pretty MA..and you both make such a cute couple!! do an outdoor and an in-studio shoot with your hubby...you ll have photos in newer outfits...digital photography....and you ll cherish them for the rest of your life....I am surprised you havent done any photoshoots since then....take advantage of anniversaries..bdays...eids...family portraits..
**if you are really concerned about your wedding pictures...you know that you cant go back in time and change anything.....but what you can do is..use modern technology to your advantage...have someone edit them...you can improve the way they look..but you canNOT go back and redo them....something is better than nothing!!
**also...referring back your point..that you had a 'Love" marriage....thus were forced into doing everything unplanned....I cannot comprehend the logic behind families objecting to a normal thing such as marriage...and you as well as your husband suffering due to their objection....and I dont understand how parents can be happy by inflicting sadness when the children listen to their wishes out of respect.
ami..just make the most of what you have....its time for you to do something to make up for it rather than crying over what has already happened.
dont feel sorry.its not the personal property of any1
when did i say gs is my personal property? do you really not read things or what? if i am a member here then i can say anything about whatever irritates me especially such useless threads that are spamming the forum. if you are so interested, then please continue your convo with her through pm or whatever.
^ i think after ALL the complaints you have, you should just go ahead, seize the moment, and wear your nikkah jora again! put up with the hard to handle bit for one night but its the perfect opportunity to really go all out and get dressed up and get some nice pictures in!! come on, girl, you're not going to get this moment again- forget the suit- you can wear it on eid.
Oh My Goodness!!! How many more threads are you going to open JUST about your pictures? Do you really need to open up 5 threads a day to whine and complain, I mean how big of a disaster was this wedding that you need all these threads to make you feel better?!
People here are not psychiatrists that they can just make you feel better about a wedding that was 6 years ago, and this is a wedding forum if you haven't noticed. If you are not able to get over your shaadi even after 6 years, what can people do here for you?! You can't bring the day back so just take peoples advice and do something to make yourself happy. Can you stop creating all these useless threads because it's getting really irritating! We log in here to discuss wedding ideas, not to offer therapy sessions. If you need to vent, start writing in the blogs here and you will get your audience.
Ami, I just saw your pics, and quite honestly, I have seen lots of weddings that have happened in that way. There are lots of different reasons for it, but people did there best to make it an occasion that everyone could enjoy within their means. There are a lot of reasons you may be upset about your wedding, but it's superficial in comparison to the happiness of a marriage.
Having seen your nikkah jora, I have to say it really is beautiful and I DEFINITELY think you should wear it for your sister's wedding day. You can wear the other suit for the mehndi or eid or something. When else are you going to wear something that heavy but your own sister's wedding?!?!?
I saw your jora. Honestly, I think you were way ahead of the fashion for 6 yrs ago. I mean your jora is so nice, you could actually wear it today and it'd still be in fashion. real nice.
^ yeah, i agree. and with updated hair and makeup to go with whats in fashion now, you're going to be gorgeous! and honestly, treat yourself and go all out- go get a mani and a pedi, get mehendi done with your sis, and get a pro to do your makeup and hair. it doesn't have to cost a lot- there are tons of people out there, even people at mall beauty counters who will do it for you and do it well.
I did the makeup and duppatta setting myself on the nikah aswell..I did not like my duppatta settings for both valima and nikah i think it ruined my look. What do you lot think of my makeup and setting even though its not clear
I think it looks lovely, Ami. No need to worry about that.
What I am noticing, however, is that the more people make suggestions for stuff for you to do in the future, the more you harp on what happened in the past. This is always going to bother you if you continue to let it.
ami! you look very pretty Mashallah...no jora or anything can hide your beauty!! khubsoorti is not measured in terms of how much makeup you have on...or how expensive your dress is.....I have seen brides wearing designer labels...not looking their money's worth....you need to ask Allah's forgiveness..because he has given you something very precious..fashion comes and goes...but your beauty will remain...dont spoil it...am convinced your trauma has nothing to do with you...stop comparing yourself with others!!!
Hmm ami stop venting abt ur pictures and decor and wht not.. U got to marry the guy you love, do you have any idea how many girls in pakistan are killed if they even mention the name of a guy they might like, cuz its hurting their fathers "honor" bla bla sh*t? do you know how many girls are forced into marriages with complete stranges whom they see face to face on their wedding day? Yet you complain abt superficial things as pictures and decor? For God sake .. geez wake up girl. If you are happily married with the man you love .. what else do you need? U need pics of him and u showing ur happiness? Well grab a camera and click some pics .. there u go! .. Stop venting .. U are being ungrateful