CM....im not blowing things out of proportion...just stating things as they are.... Yes ive got issues.....had i talked back to the endless tanay courtesy MIL and SILs, things would've been on track.
Instead, i showered them with gifts and smiles, and so i am rewarded.
So, you find it is acceptable for men to be played by their mom and sisters any time of the year while they can get away with lying blatantly to their wife.
How does this become choosing over your own blood. I went against my parents advice and stood up to marry him....n didn't consider then as a choice between my blood and him. So how does it equate when i refuse to go to his sister's place considering she had been hitting hard on me in our recent meetings.....FYI the first time i visited SIL's home was after 9 months of marriage, she lives 5 mins away and didn't find it imp to call "us" over after marriage.
Does that get noticed anywhere at all?
Look I am not here to say you are not a victim. You are. But there is an extent where things are also your fault and not his or his families fault only. I will be frank no man or woman is worth going against your family. Why? Because the family you marry into can be just like you describe them and your parents in many cases know better. But you made your decision.
I said already get a divorce and get it over with. You aren't happy. You don't forsee a change in their attitude so why bother making it work? It is sometimes better to say this is not worth it and walk away from a bad situation.
And yes it is choosing blood over water. It is how I see it.