Frankly Farhanyu, there are many new things taking over our lives and culture .... you cannot class majority of the girls in the "lost category" .... I think alot has to be blamed on the western culture and the upbringing of a child. Westerners class sex before marriage as totally acceptable , fidelity is not as strong a value for them, having multiple partners is acceptable to them.... we are wrong when we start following their wrong morals ... and not jsut girls , but guys as well are to be blamed in this new trend of "being like the goris and gora's "
But still generalizing is wrong , and whilst I do know several girls who have crossed their islamic limits ,** I do also know greater number of girls who have protected themselves against this sin.**
Totally agree!!! i feel like throwing chapals on those gurls who say "i duno it just happened" it dosnt just happen for a gurl the decision is so big that either u consciously chose to do it or u choose not to do it. anyways thats beside the topic, point being dunt generalise please! cuz it personally feels like an insult to those who have had boyfrnds but havnt done anything yet..generalizing wld mean u counting them in this sin too..
I am not at all generalizing.Thats why I have written "some" muslim and "some " pakistani girls.But the actions of some do have consequences and then people sterotype.I totaaly agree with people in the cases of abuse and rape, the surgery is justified !!!
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I agree CG! Some of you guys are being totally narrow minded when which ever one of u sed that thats why u prefer back home girls! You imply that all western pakistani's are untrustworthy... Please grow some and learn to judge people as you get to know them individually... stop running away to safe havens... losers!
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Y highlightinig such things in caps lock to who have done wrong deeds can never go and thoes who do it in any majbori…u cant never know …there are bad boys there are bad girls equally if some thing like that have done among boys they were the very first one to hide these thingsssss …!
Allah is the one who give respect and take it away from any one …other then that no one can./
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FARHAN a very interesting argument indeed, however you dont have all the facts and that kinda upset me, I have no idea as to why HYMEN was chosen to be an indicator of girls virginty, trust me there are multiple ways of a hymen to be damaged without intercourse, if you want me to go into details here, girls who are athletes, girls who go horse back riding, girls who use tampons rather then PADS and then there are girls where they use pleasure techniques to basically control their urges to get physical with someone, so dont go accusing all girls without fact.
Now as far as you mentioning a reason for desi guys to go back home to marry instead of marrying in the west, this procedure that you talked about for hymen repair is on the rise in pakistan and India and i have to look for that article but i can get you enough articles from around the world where girls are trying to do this. Because men have made Hymen an indicator thus girls have to resort to these procedures just to prove their sincerity.
ppl an unbroken Hymen does not signify a girls piousness :k:
And for those of you who might ask as to how i know about some of the girl things being a guy well past experience and lots of lady friends
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i think its a total dhoka!
I would never sleep with a guy before marriage tho so i would never need it. I do however know a hijabi who snuck out at night, went clubbing, got drunk, lost her virginity and then decided to have this surgery before she got engaged.. lucky man
I would never sleep with a guy before marriage tho so i would never need it. I do however know a hijabi who snuck out at night, went clubbing, got drunk, lost her virginity and then decided to have this surgery before she got engaged.. lucky man
So the cases are occuring and some members are pivy to it........! nice to see some honest talk.......
hahahahaha, girl this is LIFE 1 where you can discuss anything that is related to life and you should come in here with expecting anything and everything being discussed. Now you calling it cheap well, its a reality that ppl tend to ignore because they think it is cheap :k:
to who have done wrong deeds can never go and thoes who do it in any majbori…u cant never know …there are bad boys there are bad girls equally if some thing like that have done among boys they were the very first one to hide these thingsssss …!
don wowwy bout it.