How do you know if he's the one?

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Re: How do you know if he’s the one?

@htmwrites

As someone in your boots, i found this quite difficult too. I’ve never dated either and now this whole arranged marriage thing where it’s very difficult to decide if this guy is the one or not.

I’ve just kept in mind that it’s never like the movies, there are no violins (@MustafaQuraishi, lol, good one), he won’t sit there and stare at you like its the end of the world, he’s not going to chase you while you get shy and run around. All that is BS. You just have to ask the right questions and try to understand the guy. If his answers are what you’re looking for, stage 1= pass.

Stage 2 consists of observation. Observing how he is with his family, adults, children, if he’s kind to waiters or just a stuck up prick. You have to observe and look out for things that are red flags and look for things that you hope are in your ideal partner.

Stage 3 is talking it out with your elders and adults who have experience. I’ve seen that always helps.

This is how i see it may be, i still haven’t gotten past anyone who could answer my questions, let alone letting it get further. If i do, i’ll let you know how it goes. lol

Who ever said finding your life partner is easy was a crazy person or someone who had all the luck in the world.

Yes, do keep me posted! InshAllah everything will work out for the best. It’s really stressful, and I don’t know what to expect. Good luck to you!