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falsehood and stupidity always conflict.
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^ Okay that wasmy mistake, I meant to say everyone has the ability to differentiate between right and wrong; its a combination of religion and common sense.
DesolateChocolate, you've made it clear you still belong in a cave where women don't have the right to speak up for themselves.
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Combining theory and reality.
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no, first part u mean to imply that no one covers up, then u say adoption is a noble act cuz they cover up. just seemed kinda conflicting.
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I didnt say that noone ever does, but I think you have to take into account practical life. But anyway, whatever the reality is, i know that is the idea behind it., since that's what you're supposed to do.. And no, that is not the ONLY reason adoption is good, but I thnk its one of the reasons that makes it such a gud deed
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No arguments that adoption is good, but why adopt when you can have your own.
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but what if you cant have ur own?
why not adopt anyway?
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Get another wife. If the man isn't able to, adoption is alright I suppose.
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But why shud it be the "Last resort"?
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What kind of person would rather adopt children then have their own children.
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but, again, whats wrong with adoptinG?
I’m not trying to insult the idea of having ur own kids, or other ppl who have kids, but in all honesty, theres too many idiots who get pregnant and mess up their lives and their kids lives.. they’re too poor to take care of them, not to mention the millions of kids who are grossly abused and neglected by irresponsible people.. When you adopt, you go through a long and lengthy process, it is not that easy at all.. you have to prove that you’ll be a gud parent..
That being said I want to adopt kids AND have my own 
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lol, ur so naive.
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im glad :)
answer to ur question: yes I would mind if he goes out and marry someone just for leisure ..other than that I can't really say anything as of this moment b/c most of the time what we think we could/want to do doesnt turn out the same when time arrives.
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I would kick his ass out and sue him for all his money!
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But during those times Draupadi had 5 husbands so it really wasn’t just men who had multiple spouses. She must have been worn out by the end of the day:D
I would never allow my husband to have another wife. He needs to be faithful to me. No more wives for him:nono1:
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most guys cant even handle one wife, let alone 2 or more.
unless the mother breast feeds her adopted son. There are ways of produces milk w/o having to give birth.
back to the topic....no i wouldnt allow my husband to take on another wife. I dont think I would be able to handle it. In all honestly I would end up making all our lives miserable...not intentionally but just because I couldnt imagine my husband loving or having sex with another woman. It would kill me emotionally.
I would rather he divorce me then take on another wife.
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I totally agree with Angel Eyes on this.
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ditto to what angeleyes said.