Multiple Wives...

[parissenoor]

Re: Multiple Wives...

@Afridi786

What kind of person would rather adopt children then have their own children.

that's the difference between humans and animals!

human can like other children as their own, but for animals it's really rare:D
so those pretending adotption is not a muslim thing are saying muslims are animals...really pathetic!

[parissenoor]

Re: Multiple Wives…

@AnGeL EyEs

unless the mother breast feeds her adopted son. There are ways of produces milk w/o having to give birth.

back to the topic…no i wouldnt allow my husband to take on another wife. I dont think I would be able to handle it. In all honestly I would end up making all our lives miserable…not intentionally but just because I couldnt imagine my husband loving or having sex with another woman. It would kill me emotionally.

I would rather he divorce me then take on another wife.

:k: yes, i love him too much, if he wants someone else than me, he can go away, he knows where the door stand…

[Afridi786]

Re: Multiple Wives...

i never said that but, if u r able to have children y not? y wud u not want to have ur own kids? u can adopt too but i was just saying that what kind of person wud adopt in place of having their own kids.

[parissenoor]

Re: Multiple Wives...

@LuxuryItem

If a man take another woman, it doesn't mean he loves his primary any less. It's just she can't meet all his needs.

In cases where a wife has had a hysterectomy and can't sexually satisfy her husband, do you think it'd be fair to the husband to not seek outside help? Given the fact that both husband and wife want to stay in the marriage and love each other, this 'arrangement' in no way means less love for the wife. But that's an extreme example. Question is can a person (man or woman) fulfill all the needs? And, please don't give me the kneejerk 'oh men can't satisfy a women's needs cuz men are inferior beings' pullova.

if he needs someone for sex...he can go away, i'll never allow him to be unfaithfull to me, i really prefer to live alone than with someone who makes me suffer!

[Impulse]

Re: Multiple Wives...

@quas

They might not be Pakistani and muslim.. you are not.. ! come on, its time to come out of shadows.. I am from Kotli Loharan in the Sialkot district.. where are you from? Maybe I can start chatting with you.. who knows I can marry you and make you a good muslim with time...

no thanks....im taken.

[quas]

Re: Multiple Wives…

@parissenoor

:k: yes, i love him too much, if he wants someone else than me, he can go away, he knows where the door stand…

why can’t he love anyone else apart from you? or is he reserved for you? Since your hubby is nice, he can be loved by many.. isn’t it?

[quas]

Re: Multiple Wives...

@Impulse

no thanks....im taken.

:(

[Afridi786]

Re: Multiple Wives...

women here want to be the dictators of the marriage, not democracy with other wives, thats y they disallow the men what Allah swt has allowed.

[parissenoor]

Re: Multiple Wives...

@Afridi786

i never said that but, if u r able to have children y not? y wud u not want to have ur own kids? u can adopt too but i was just saying that what kind of person wud adopt in place of having their own kids.

well, humans are not beast, we can control our sex drive! we are not forced to have sex to reproduce! we have feelings! and if sfor some reason soeone can not have a serious love relationship, she/he can choose adoption to have children instead of fu**ing like a beast to get their "own " children

[Afridi786]

Re: Multiple Wives...

@quas

:(

where ya been, all she does is talk about her and her fiance and how perfect they are.

[Impulse]

Re: Multiple Wives...

@quas

:(

and he believes a man should only marry once....and finds the concept of marrying more than once sick.

[parissenoor]

Re: Multiple Wives…

@quas

why can’t he love anyone else apart from you? or is he reserved for you? Since your hubby is nice, he can be loved by many.. isn’t it?

well if those girls really want him…i’l let him to them…
and go live my life somewhere else, i have money and brain, i’m not tied to any commitment

[Impulse]

Re: Multiple Wives...

@Afridi786

where ya been, all she does is talk about her and her fiance and how perfect they are.

you jealous?

[Afridi786]

Re: Multiple Wives...

@parissenoor

well, humans are not beast, we can control our sex drive! we are not forced to have sex to reproduce! we have feelings! and if sfor some reason soeone can not have a serious love relationship, she/he can choose adoption to have children instead of fu**ing like a beast to get their "own " children

damn, relax, go adopt buncha chinese babies. what do u think marriage what we r talking about is for (clearly not a serious relationship)..to reproduce..and multiply the ummah.

[Afridi786]

Re: Multiple Wives...

@Impulse

you jealous?

no, just an observation :)

[quas]

Re: Multiple Wives...

@parissenoor

well if those girls really want him...i'l let him to them... and go live my life somewhere else, i have money and brain, i'm not tied to any commitment

thats when he gives you talaq..

[Impulse]

Re: Multiple Wives...

how would guys feel if their wife had 4 husbands?

[hussain87]

Re: Multiple Wives…

@quas

^ :k: thanks, pra.. you are sooo right! These woman like their husband to be like a toy with who only they can play

actually i wouldn,t encourge some1 to have more then 1 wife but i see alot of gals talking how misrable and loveless they will feel if their husband is gonna have another wife…since when did islam say ur wife should be happy …islam says u have to treat them equally and if u threat them well then they don,t have any reason to feel misrable … its her fault cuz she is being jaelous …but we all know quran is the only book which says have 1 wife if u know u will not be able to support them…so i don,t think many muslim marrry more then 1 woman. …

[quas]

Re: Multiple Wives...

@Impulse

and he believes a man should only marry once....and finds the concept of marrying more than once sick.

thats today.. but honey things can change tomorrow.. as I said to Parisnoor, A nice man can be loved by many- dont try to be feminazi.

[Impulse]

Re: Multiple Wives...

@quas

thats today.. but honey things can change tomorrow.. as I said to Parisnoor, A nice man can be loved by many- dont try to be feminazi.

i dont talk to narrow minded people ....and you dont seem to have a brain at all.....as i said, you'll be lucky if u can find even one female....be it a monkey or anything....so just be happy with one.