Re: Multiple Wives…
im not opposed to anyone else marrying more then one wife. I’ve mentioned that time and time again. Im not opposed to anything that Allah (SWT) has made permissible for us. For women that can handle it…more power to them. It takes a strong woman to allow another woman to enter her home and share her husband.
I am not that kind of woman. I dont like to share 
and yes I would be afraid that he may not treat us equally. Perhaps he will be more inclined to one wife and not the other. In my opinion a man that is in love with his wife ..he will love EVERYTHING about her…her flaws and all. If he loves her he shouldnt have to look at any other woman for satisfaction and if he does…just imagine how incomplete his wife will feel.
These example you give me about people being married to more then one wife arent credible. We dont know what really goes on in their homes. Only Allah (SWt) knows. You dont know if the wives are truly being treated equal. This is only based on what you see and what you hear…which doesnt count for much.
Why would a man want to marry more then one wife if it is not advisable to do so in Islam?