Moody people

Do you know people who are soooooo extremely nice and pleasant one day and totally weird the next day? You don’t know what ticks them off, and that too so quickly? They are unpredictable and difficult to deal with.

I know we all go through our mood swings, sometimes circumstantial and sometimes hormonal.

So how do you deal with such people, especially those you meet on a daily basis and have to work with some capacity?

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Being extremely nice and pleasant on certain days is actually an act we put on. If we could have our ways we'd be moody 24/7.

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lol, no WONDER my ears are ringing, you're talking about me lol!

Sometimes, I love people and want to be around them and other days I yearn for my ranch in the vastness of the Wyoming plains (actually, thats my preference).

Guys are blessed in that they dont have those monthly swings...I've had such experiences with hormones and have come to the conclusion that they have a huge impact on my personality. I just pray to keep enough strength to keep meself nice and civil at all times which is very challenging sometimes lol!

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I dont mind Moodiness, its only Natural and cannot be controlled.

I do however cannot stand people who are up themselves and have airs around them like they are better than others.

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The world is full of such people who think they are better than others.

I'll give you an example, someone I know is always quick to point out how Allah must be mad at me and my family if we come accross some misfortune...like when my husband lost his job or when I had a miscarriage. Maybe it's true but it seems that they are superior in some way. Dunno.

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Oh well then make sure you have a bag full of streamers and phuljaris for the Day of Judgment so when these Superior people are being sent to hell you can cheer them on.

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:omg:

No but it’s true Adra. There’s so many of them superiorinas lurking around.

That is more than someone thinking they are better than others, this is people being lame, mean and stupid.

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Allah is never ever mad at his people!!
What an absurd thing for them to say.

He’s just testing our patience.
The lost job was just a reaason to find a better one
the misccariage was jsut a way of saving you or the baby from harm that would have been harder to handle.

what stupidity is that – Allah is mad at you! :mad:
He’s not human!!! he’s above anger..:rolleyes:

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I'd rather be around outright moody types, than pretentious, fake, goody two shoes types. At least you know what you're up against.

:rotfl:
Great attitude.

I know a head nurse where my mom gets her dialysis done and she is ONE moody character.. one day she'd be smooching me and praising me.. and one fine day she'll lecture me on everything under the sun! She is deaf in one ear so she speaks really loudly cuz she can't hear herself.. and if anyone else speaks (on her bad day) she sends them out!

she is only deaf ?lol

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Oh people tell me i m moody too...i guess i am but its more like i am transparent and cant hide my feelings so whatever i m feelin is on my face but some people r just too good at faking stuff so others thing that oh he/she is so lively n nice 24/7 rolleyes

That is really a mean thing for someone to say...especially when you're already going through such difficult times.

Ive come across moody people and I deal with them normally. I can be moody too and try my best to control it as much as possible but sometimes...I snap! :(

So, Im normal with them. I dont bat an eye when they get fiesty...because that will be me in a few weeks too, lol.

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kes kes ka nam bataon gs bhera hoa he moooody ppl se :crying:

me too :lifey:
i hate, no no no, i think hate is a very harsh word
i dont like, .. . .hmmm this one is bit rude as well
i see ppl putting fake smile and acting all nice which I dont find entertaining

:@:

oopsh… you must be talking about me :heykitty:

Come on its all just sooo natural!!....v all know emotions rnt constant....they vary...n v all go thru this...N moodinesss...it gets triggered by emotional changes!!...da thing is to know wat made them tickd off?..n then deal wid them accordingly!!....if u know da person is nice....n is not in a bad mood always.....then ofcourse such mood swings signifies dat sumthing is wrong!

N sumtimes u have to fake!!...or ppl will stamp u wid saddist..rude..Hotheaded...aur na janay kia kia!!.....so its kind of controlling urself...n yes u cannot show everyone how u r feeeling!! u can show it only to the right ppl...who understands u!

by the way....hating or disliking sumone for not being so upfront....is so childish! :@:

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oh yesh yesh :) tinker is a good thinker :D