I don't understand how
not talking = being mad
I do that all the time. My friends know me they don't have any issues with me not talking to them.
I have brain of my own you know... it may not be in complete sync. with your brain at times.
No big deal.
I think when you only one way to measure your friendship(by talking), Then not talking could be an issue.
The world is full of such people who think they are better than others.
I'll give you an example, someone I know is always quick to point out how Allah must be mad at me and my family if we come accross some misfortune...like when my husband lost his job or when I had a miscarriage. Maybe it's true but it seems that they are superior in some way. Dunno.
So what happens when something goes wrong for her, does she think this is divine retribution and admit her sins?
Nik, remember this, Allah puts people through trials in order for them to remember Him, and every hardship they go through, they lose some of their minor sins, and are drawn closer to Allah. Tell this woman there are some mercies in the fate that is thrown at us, though we know it not, at the time.