Moms 2012- 2013

[mirage]

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@khawateen

There is nothing like a first time mommy… I see myself in s many of these posts when I was preg the first time around

So dreamy
so full of ideas and what to do and not do
oh the planning

Now a second time mom, I smile reading this thread

And think… So naiive

All the best to all the mothers to be…may you all get easy breezy babies

yes so naive upto the level o stupidity almost

but well thats the beauty of it. We are learning!!!

[mirage]

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Yes I had my bloods dne again today, i had them done 2 weeks ago also before going away but i received a letter to have them done again. The results will take a few days to come back, i am quite certan i am anaemic but we will see what the results say. I am trying to rest when I can, have to really as i just can't do things normally and carry, and schools re open tomorrow!!!

All the best with your results. I just PRAY you are not anemic or suffering from low HB.

that is so unfair for the baby, more than anything. And if it happens because of any negligence of the momma or something, I think that is cruel. Saying this because came to know about someone a couple o days back, she is about 22 I think. 7 months preggers and 5-6 HB!!! On top of it, she observed all fasts almost (because her nand told her to, and no one in her inlaws asked her not to) Gosh I feel so angry at her inlaws as much as at her. Some sense people!! SENSE!!!

[akmoti]

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@mirage

And it is such a torment learning to accustom my body to lie on my let now, when I have passed about five months being on my back the best in order not to crush my baby or make it feel uncomfortable if I lie on either side I have to excuse to my baby now for not being mindful of lying on my left before. I know my baby lost much of the energy because I didnt take care of this earlier. And Aunt Dem is to blame (this is on record just incase )

five months have passed?so from now on you wont be able to sleep on your back…
put a pillow between your legs and around belly phir kuch nai hoga baby ko

[akmoti]

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and here is video for how to roll over when sleeping…
i found it very comfy specially in my last trimester…

How To Roll Over While Sleeping In Your Third Trimester of Pregnancy - YouTube

[akmoti]

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All the best with your results. I just PRAY you are not anemic or suffering from low HB.

that is so unfair for the baby, more than anything. And if it happens because of any negligence of the momma or something, I think that is cruel. Saying this because came to know about someone a couple o days back, she is about 22 I think. 7 months preggers and 5-6 HB!!! On top of it, she observed all fasts almost (because her nand told her to, and no one in her inlaws asked her not to) Gosh I feel so angry at her inlaws as much as at her. Some sense people!! SENSE!!!

u know mirage my friend is 4months pregnant and she drinks coke everyday...instead of water!!!she drinks 5-6 glasses of chilled coke everyday!!!! her doctor couldnt convince her to avoid coke as she is very very very weak....but its impossible to stop her....i feel really sad yaar!:(

[mirage]

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@akmoti

five months have passed?so from now on you wont be able to sleep on your back…
put a pillow between your legs and around belly phir kuch nai hoga baby ko

and this is the worst disadvantage of living in Pakistan. I doubt if I can get any o them here :hinna:

i try that sandwich between pillows thing as Dem advised, but i dont know it feels like the pillow I put under my belly is rather pushing it

[akmoti]

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^i didnt use this pillow i just used 2 regular pillows or cushions one between legs n other to support the belly...just the positions were like these....if you feel uncomfortable then dont put under your belly....

[mirage]

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u know mirage my friend is 4months pregnant and she drinks coke everyday...instead of water!!!she drinks 5-6 glasses of chilled coke everyday!!!! her doctor couldnt convince her to avoid coke as she is very very very weak....but its impossible to stop her....i feel really sad yaar!:(

ak, cravings is one thing and literally starving in the name of fasting when you are already suffering from bad health and low HB is something else. I dont even have words to express my fury. How can some people be just so insensitive and foolish. grrrrr.

[akmoti]

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^uff feeling sad for her :( i hope she is better now?

i dont understand how moms-to-be neglect their health issues...
its true that many of them deliver a baby but still neglecting is not good in the long run....and it doesnt work for everyone....

[Mrs_NM]

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You can just use a regular pillow placed between your knees, I do this and it does feel so much more comfy.

[kakee]

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ladies.. why not say cola.. >.>

[mirage]

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^uff feeling sad for her :( i hope she is better now?

i dont understand how moms-to-be neglect their health issues... its true that many of them deliver a baby but still neglecting is not good in the long run....and it doesnt work for everyone....

she was my student actually. a very nerd and ma sha Allah distinction holder. just a kid she is herself. got married right after her grad. was already poor health wise. I want to strangle her inlaws for being this careless towards her.

i dont know if she is any better now. I got this update on her from her sisters who came to see me a couple of days back. dont hope really things have changed this soon with her. bas May Allah protect her and her child is all i can pray.

[WendyDarling]

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I need a body pillow too! And need to get a playpen and a swing.

[mirage]

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ladies.. why not say cola.. >.>

cola is BAD for health. all carbohyderated drinks are, or that matter. I have heard one glass of cola takes away as much as 6 glasses worth milk's calium from your body.

[Demilitarize]

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^ okay im not giving up my diet coke. It is my one source of joy

and i forgot what i came to say.

[S_Punk]

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35 weeks. I feel like a beached whale every time I try to move. Especially when lying down. Sigh.

[tranquil]

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^ lol , im in the same boat. my doctor has to help me up every time i go for a check up. Im useless...

[mirage]

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And I finally felt something like a movement last night. And after that, looks like my baby has decided to be kind to me. Now its like everytime I am on my right side, there will be something moving leetle in the lower corner of my belly. like the baby doesnt like to be in the pit when i am on my right side and revolts. its divine.

[Demilitarize]

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And I finally felt something like a movement last night. And after that, looks like my baby has decided to be kind to me. Now its like everytime I am on my right side, there will be something moving leetle in the lower corner of my belly. like the baby doesnt like to be in the pit when i am on my right side and revolts. its divine.

omg soooooooooooo cute! mela bacha!

[akmoti]

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And I finally felt something like a movement last night. And after that, looks like my baby has decided to be kind to me. Now its like everytime I am on my right side, there will be something moving leetle in the lower corner of my belly. like the baby doesnt like to be in the pit when i am on my right side and revolts. its divine.

congratulations mirage! yayyyy finally!!!! :) Alhumdulillah!

and i hope your students is better now!