Re: Men who are not against polygamy [merged]
^ Ah Samb...you assert some here are in a delusion Islam is just about Polygamy.
That is not so. Maybe, Some of us are just ensuring the facts are clear.
RV. You said 'Who the hell is saying that polygamy isn't permissible?'.
Having read carefully, you would have noticed some women have asserted it, and most recently 'Starlight' did in the previous page.
Only because some people are not able to comprehend the clear facts. Only for thier services, some of us similarly have to break down and the re-iterate earlier answers.
To RVs clear and extensive post. It lacks factual insight. On which, I have not the time nor is this the place for me to reply and enlighten you on your shortcomings in Islam intuition. You have little evidence to back up your opinions. You have little knowledge on the role of sex in Islam for men.
And certainly, nobody here can predict what the Prophet would say. To which, If Islam allows a 9 year old child to wed a 90 year old man, I prefer to belive everybody is encouraged to marry; including the deaf, dumb, blind, disabled, jobless, penniless.
I do not want get into an argument. If you really want it, and I CAN back up my statements with koranic and prophetic literature, be my guest on another thread.
Also, No one should aim or belive they are personally aimed at.
The facts by now, I belive are apparent for people who can tolerate the correct intuition of Polygamy for most people-which many respectable people on the thread have illustrated, of being sexual gratification
Polygamy has its broad purposes the same way normal marriage does, with one such to avoid illegal sexual activities, such as those of extra marital affairs and courtship.
On the contrary, if Polygamy was for the sole purpose of 'helping' a women; one could simply do that by financial or material aid.
The modern day arabs, widely and succesfully practice polygamy, and corrspondigly have a lower level of illicit sex social problems.
It should be remembered that verse concerned, was to reduce the number of wives permit to four, as opposed to allow up to. This is as in pre-islam people it was common for people to have in excess of 4 wives and at times in excess of 100.
Im belive everybody is consistant with the notion that these people never had a large number of wifes for charitable, but for sexual gratification purposes. It is clear Islam placing a limit on it, as opposed to a ban, agrees to the sexual gratification purpose.
Therefore, as well as a mnan wanting to marry another women, for the good intent of providing security to a women, he is also allowed to re-marry for sexual furfllment purposes; infact he can re-marry for any reason as long as he firmly belives he can furfill the precondtion of just treatment.
I agree Lamb with your earlier posts. My repetitive posts are aimed at the repetitive and reluctant to get past stage 1 posters.
