No seriousely ,why you guys do that.i really want to know why u like other ladies alot instead of ur wife.others cook so well ,they take care of kids better than you.well one of my best friends hubby do this alot.for e.g sadia did u see… mrs haq cooks so well,did u ate her biryani .yaar tum bhi aisee banaya karoo nah.or mrs khalid knows how to be fit ,lagta hi nahi woh 2 bachoon ki amma hain:smack:yahan falah kai bachai barai tameez dar hain,zahir hai unn ki amma ka ikhlaq bhi bohat achaa hai nah:smack:
Presenting someone as a role model is not such a bad thing . Don't mothers use that on their children all the time . ''wooh dekho chunuu kitna acha bacha ha , zara tung nahi kerta apni mama ko'' . So men use the same technique .
Its not that they don't like their wives , its just that they want them to be the best . So glass is half full :)
Presenting someone as a role model is not such a bad thing . Don't mothers use that on their children all the time . ''wooh dekho chunuu kitna acha bacha ha , zara tung nahi kerta apni mama ko'' . So men use the same technique .
Its not that they don't like their wives , its just that they want them to be the best . So glass is half full :)
yeah just cz moms use it...doesnt mean its right either... theres a thread in parenting right now about this very topic..
i think its messed up and very sad. it can make a person feel like they absolutely dont matter.
My husband has never praised another woman over me in front of me. Even though he is not one to throw compliments around generously, once in a while he says something that compensates for the everyday "wow, this is good."
But then I never compare him to other husbands either. I think it's degrading and hurts the ego.
Guys always think the grass is greener on the other side. However it isnt. Men just dont know how to say things. Sometimes they dont mean to compare you. They are just silly. If they continue to do so.. Well thats the sofa for them for the week/month however long! ;)
Also i think its very wrong to compare you child to another, Really it is.. No matter how bad they do in school or whatever never compare them, It wont make them better it will make them rebel. Be proud of them and *always *encourage them that they are the 'best'. Im not a mother yet, But i have done this to my little cousin, Now mashallah he does great in school. It doesnt hurt to boost up their confidence with a little bit of kind words here n there.
