Men & Arranged Marriages

Now I can understand in Pakistani Society girls having their marriages arranged .


What beats me is how GROWN MEN who wouldn’t let their mom’s choose their shirts let them choose their mates !!!




So guys , what makes you decide to go for an arranged marriage , what is your reasoning behind it ?


Is it just that she gave birth to you and therefore she has the right to choose cuz thats the most frequent answer I’ve gotten whenever I asked ?


I’m sure there is much more to it though !



Please help us understand why you would agree to an arranged marriage ?

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Because the guys who'd agree to it have separate standards ... for girl they'd like to date... and for girls they'd like to marry.... so, the girls they'd like to marry won't date them, and the girls who date them are not worthy of marriage.

hypocrisy? I guess so. ;)

:eek:
**did u just compared a **wife wid a shirt … cuz we tend to change our shirt every day …

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Another topic on marriage.. :bummer: I am not gonna post anything here. Marriage talk makes me sick now… :bummer:

do u know that Edward cullien wil die in Twilight 2 (full moon) ??

Is it hypocrisy ? It can't be hypocrisy when over 70% of the marriages that take place in Pakistan are arranged & successful **! **

Soooo, whats the problem.They live happily.

:rotfl:


sounds like ur an arranged marriage waiting to happen :hehe:

FT…:smilestar:


U already posted here …now express ur true thoughts woman :emmy:

whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy ? NOooooooooooooooooooooo..... i wont see the movie then. You are lying right? I have the book, I am going to start it right now. And if you were proved liar then tumhari kher nahin ... :ATA:



did I say there was a problem ? :aq:


I merely ask the why and wherefore :chai:

did he die of an arranged marriage ? :hmmm:

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Some people [men and women] may think that their parents can make a better, informed decision for them, especially if they have had bad experiences or are gullible etc.

Good gal…
I think love marriages are common too,it all depends on the person.Some prefer arranged to love ,thats why!

:lb: :@:

i just finished it … n am not lying … n the smiley code is : ASA : … not :ATA:

no … cuz he loved someone …

^ :omg:

:frowning: Believe me i feel pregnant when someone talks about marriage now. I feel dizzy, nausea, darkness infront of eyes, and hell tired :bummer:

On serious note, jo meray dill ko passand ho ga, ussi se shadi karoon gi. Now either its arranged or love, I dont care :snooty:

Love has failed , as well as arranged marriages. Its all up to you TWO how do you handle diff situations and how do you TWO keep balance between famlies. If you are willing to sort out issues, they get sorted out peacefully. As they say where there is a will, there is way.. Period

:ASA: :ASA: :ASA: :ASA:

Yeh loo, koi hasrat baaqi na rahay tumhari :@:

^why gal.why do you feel like that.Important thing is, parents n family choice should be kept in mind.They are never wrong.

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No i never said I will elope :@:

My father will break my and his legs in real :bummer:

Kabhi beqasi ne mara , Kabhi bebasi ne maraa…
Gila maut se nahi hai , Mujhey zindagi ne mara … :music:

:lb:

I’m gonna make an appointment to see me ASAP !..Ur situation is critical :emmy: