men and staring

i wonder what part makes you think i'm trying to gain attention or flatter myself. oh i see, you like to say things regardless of whether they make sense or not. right.
as for the bold part, why dont you start with yourself first.

p.s. there is no such thing as the "western" way my dear. it's either the right, or the wrong way.

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Staring is nothing but appreciation. Thou shalt be flattered :k:

Jaanwar is so cute, he could never stare at a woman with pervy looks :wub: He’s sucha 5 yr old!

Depends upon the starer and the type of staring. A 5-year-old staring at you…sure that can be cute.

Someone staring at you intensely as though they have built-in x-ray vision and plan to devour you…erm…not flattering at all.

I don’t know what crowd you hang around :slight_smile: but in Pakistan, women stare as well. (some of them even giggle and point at you but lets not get into that :()

I admit, I will look and stare at some girls either because I LOVE what they’re wearing or because I want ot make sure I never go to that store :hehe:

I didn’t say they stare with the same intentions, but the action (staring) is still the same.

staring’s only nice if done by a good looking guy (single/age, all questionable :)). Otherwise, old ugly dudes have n right to appreciate beauty :hehe:

Really?? Where? I haven't experienced that... thats so rude but still they are not staring at you for perverted reasons and/or mentally undressing you so its totally different than the discussion we're having.

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(Mia secretly stares at women too)

:p

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in pakistan last year, went to a shopping mall with my husband, While husbands parking car, i went in and looked at some clothes and asked for a small size..they only have small, medium , large.....so i asked for small..sensing my accent was foreign he asked me about my ahem CHEST size.....i saw hubby walk in, so i asked the guy to repeat himself as i hadnt heard him. he asked again.....

apka chest ka kitna size hai madam....

husband slaps him hard across the face and says meri fist ka size pehle deklo.....

:rotfl:

Toooo funny! Although you have to wonder, what kind of guy wouldn’t even dare repeat such a question in front of a girl’s husband? You’d think he’d have the sense not to repeat it in front of him.

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he didnt know he was my husband, because husband had just walked in...and the guy was facing me.....:]

hahaha That is awesome! (not what the dude said... but what your hubby's response was!) :D

But wow..how highly inappropriate for a random store shop dude to ask u that.......

yeah right :cb:

Price to pay for being red and furry and cute. :(

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some cultural intel for you guys

in pakistan its NOT rude to stare
in pakistan its not rude to fart in public either

learn something new everyday :)

also, we do it on one go and call it the START

you must be as hot as katrina kaif..

:hehe:..

OMG!!!.... LMFAO!!! I can't stop laughing!

ahh yes, reminds me of one of my favorite quotes:

"In the West it's ok to kiss in public, but not piss in public. In Pakistan it's ok to piss in public , but not kiss in public. "

lol!

It is not "OK" to piss in public in Pakistan. People do it since there are no public bathrooms as common there.

If you have ever been stuck in traffic when you really have to go, and you don't even have an empty bottle lying around, you realize what a luxury it is to just pull over, get it out and let it rip. One of the times when you really wish you were in Pakistan.