Re: Self Indulgence- masturbation
Thank you Sadiyah!
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Well, our behaviour in the society is to large degree dependent on how we are from inside. Home is a unit of society and a person is a unit of home. If one can not exhibit good behaviour (for example, self control) in home, chances are that he/she would also not behave well in the society.
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good reply
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Only the ones who are not satisfied with their sex life or are single does it. The rest just go with the real thing. hmm would it bother me, i guess not. Cant say anything till i face the situation in reality.
p.s: I dont think its haram and i have no surah or anything to support ma notion.
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^^ better check the link posted by sadya. According to hanafi's its haram.
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IQ: whts hanafi?
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One of the 4 Imams of sunni and the most renowned one. Almost all sunnies of subcontinent are Hanafi.
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I would be mad cuz wat the hell did he marry me for 
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^^^
Pray to God , to be blessed. neither you would be in such company; nor you would be with so much ishteha. Normal people never do all this. They know God has bestowed on them his blessings, they use their brain , so do my husband. "Say lahoul on shetan". you would be saved with such things. I am sorry to write the following.
It reminds me my school days, when we, a bunch of few girls with no make up, and wearing dopata with head. All young girls of 12 and thirteen, used to walk very quietly towards our school. Many times; not TEDDY boys, never, some men with DARHE, going on bicycles, used to be so much mad showing their -----and doing what now we know what it is masterbation/---mental disorder. It was so difficult for all of us to understand that the person is not sick and is not urinating some pus, so we all used to get scared to death, and used to run. We all were so shy natured girls that non of us ever deared to tell this to our parents. There is always, some where some problem with such men-------
Otherwise being a doctor I have never heard this problem with any women or men. Except those who have som KESKA DEMAG.-
How to stop Masturbation? Is it Haraam?
I know it is Haraam. Some people think it's not. But I want to know how to stop Masturbation for ever?
Also, how to control the thoughts, do you tend to think about something all the time?
Please participate in this thread to help this. Masturbation is a bad and it leads to Hell.
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Is there any Medicine to stop this? I am seriously concerned about it. I don't tell anyone and I think my parents don't know and we are not allowed to advertise our sins. In here, I am just asking the questions. I really want to stop it, but I can't. I maximum go without this sinful habit for a week only. Can I quit it for ever? Is it possible? Some people say that we cannot quit it for ever.
Re: How to stop Masturbation? Is it Haraam?
even though I don't pray myself, but I know if you start praying 5 times a day you need to keep yourself clean. might work for you.
I did not know that it leads to hell. somebody with more knowledge might be able help on this.
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http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showthread.php?t=150886&highlight=Masturbation
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Dude, just keep yourself busy.
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Moment the idea of masturbation strike your mind think that Allah and his prophet and his Imam is watching me. Those tow angles are watching me.
My this act will hurt my prophet my Imam and to myself too
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Try taking up an active sport.
Stop feeling Guilty, I bet more than half of the boys & girls have indulged in this, at some stage of their life.
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http://www.askimam.org/fatwa/fatwa.php?askid=992f7484e7b23fb6f3417d86976981b4
Re: How to stop Masturbation? Is it Haraam?
try not to be alone for long times....
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the signs point to u should get married......i read somewhere fastin helps....but if u want ur fast to be good make sure u fast like its ramadan u know pray 5x a day......
stay offline after 10pm u weakminded boy.....hollar @ ur boi...lol (this last line was for my own amusement...dont worry u'll get over it)
Re: How to stop Masturbation? Is it Haraam?
when you are 13 or 14 you are always told,oh don't do it, its a sin and it is bad for your health,you will become weak and ill.Well guess what? doctors say that its good for health,any type of sex,it raises your testosterone levels,improves your immune system,lowers your blood pressure etc.