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I'll try my best to get this.
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I never read that hadith before.
well i ask u people how many of u know all hadiths??huh...1 can easily diff bwteen prophet said thing and normal man saying..use ur senses...might be u people r very moderate and wannna allow masturbation thts y wht eva hadith will be giver u will even ask time.....i ask u people the man in ur house to wohem u call father is "really" ur father..go and search
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well i ask u people how many of u know all hadiths??huh...1 can easily diff bwteen prophet said thing and normal man saying..use ur senses...might be u people r very moderate and wannna allow masturbation thts y wht eva hadith will be giver u will even ask time.....i ask u people the man in ur house to wohem u call father is "really" ur father..go and search
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It should be common logic that masterbation will take you to hell anyways :p but i'll do my research for that hadith they need :)
Re: Masturbation: Why its haraam?
Ok so masterbution is forbidden as welll?. Isn't this something has to do with you private life that religion shouldn't come in the way?. You know, there are lot of people who do that..to relieve themselves..and if they don't as say, they lie. If you wonder do i do such?. Well i have my boyfriend to help me with it. I hope you got my point.
regards,
nicole.
Re: Masturbation: Why its haraam?
what is “private” ? you are held responsible to maintain health and not damage your body… what is “private” again?
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How does masturbation damage your health? Last i read, you can’t get yourself pregnatn, you can’t give yourself herpes/hiv/etc and you won’t break up and dump yourself if you found out you’ve masturbated… ok it’s haram but, like, isn’t it the lesser of the two evils? I.e., masturbation versus gee idunno having sex??? And iarnet’ we obligated to take the lesser of hte evil if it’s hard to control? And as for marraige, u can hav the intention but it’s not that simple to find a rishta 
Re: Masturbation: Why its haraam?
Sara,
It depends on how you look at it. For some men choking the chicken from an early age, hidden from parents, can cause anxiety and guilt. Since sexual acts are inextricably linked with the psychology of mind, for most men, who are avid monkey spankers with a guilt factor, get conditioned to cleaning the pipe quickly, resulting in pre-mature ejaculation when they have a sexual partner later in life.
No such side effects have been observed in females though. But who knows, right?
P.S. I used euphemism because i have problem with utterance of the word. too shy.
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^Well said. What is "rishta"?
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Ahhhh i get it.. interestin…well i dunno bout females.. i think i read way too much cosmo/seventeen magazine in high school so that corrupted my mind 
israeli girl, rishta is uhm… i dunno the exact translation but u kno pakis do arranged marriages, so parents choose a certain number of bachelors/bachelorettes for thier kid to marry… so like if ur mom invites over a boy solely for the intent of engagemnet/marriage, then he woul dbe a rishta.. i hope i explained it properly..
Re: Masturbation: Why its haraam?
yeah so why’s it called monkey spanking?
Ur too shy to say the M word but not too shy to say dicksussion… 
Re: Masturbation: Why its haraam?
Rishta can be translated into two things…
- Proposal
- relatives (plural of rishta)
but basically proposal, plz correct me anyone if i am wrong!
Re: Masturbation: Why its haraam?
Many scholars say that masturbation is totally halaal if you're doing it because you, for some reason or the other, are unable to get married. Common example that applies to people on this board: students.
Whoever touches his sexual organ cannot pray until he performs ablution."
If you look at this sentence, it should be common sense that masturbation is OK, because otherwise the Prophet would not be telling you to perform an ablution after it. You have to clean yourself after having sex too, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't have sex. The recommondation for performing an ablution presupposes that "touching your own sexual organs" is permissable.
Now, how often you do it, whether you chose masturbation over marriage, etc etc - these are all separate issues. Most scholars I've read have said its okay, if you have no alternative to satisfying yourself. Its better to masturbate then go and get some lady impregnated by a one-night stand. But these scholars also suggest to get married as soon as is possible for you.
Re: Masturbation: Why its haraam?
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Masturbation I - Haram
E-mail 1 from Ali Aman:
The Prophet said: Among those whom Allah will not look at on the Day of Resurrection, and to whom He will say, "Enter the Fire along with those who enter," the Prophet (pbuh) counted the following: The active and the passive partners in homosexuality; the one who has sex with animals; the one who is married to a woman and her daughter at the same time; and the one who masturbates regularly, unless they repent and reform.
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I find there is always a loophole in God's words. Now go ahead guys. If you skip a day once in a while it is not regular.:-)
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isnt masturbation concider less haraam then to have sex ?
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will anyone please provide me hadiths regarding masturbation......thanks
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Lussi iv’e heard its haram for a girl to do that to a guy and a guy to help a girl out.. tho i dunno why, coz then its not masturbation, its foreplay 
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^ Now that's absurd. Read the Quranic verses on it - pretty much anything is allowed between a married couple except anal sex, and menstruation-sex. There might be something else, I don't remember exactly.
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Here’s what I could find: