Why ask questions you will not like the answers to? Does your current degree equip you with common sense?
I don’t even know what to say to the second part of your post. Were you under the impression that your feelings were at the forefront of my mind when responding? When I respond to a post I respond with what I feel. Not what you expect me to feel or say. If you don’t like it, that is your issue. And you can express that as well. But am I required to change my views? No. Such is life “my friend”.
So their lamb dishes are phenomenal.
Always marinated just right. Yes, the rice is bland when compared to say our biryani but I don’t mind it. Also, you are right generally the food lacks mirch masala. At my age that is a welcome change once in a while.
And what I said was nothing less than the truth. Your intentions could have been to build a mosque in Hyderabad…but does it matter?
Let me show you what I mean when I talk about sensibilities and why someone would get offended:
See in my experience with Punjabis…the loud factor is with both male and female. But how would you know who’s louder when you’re not aware of how loud you are?
Explain what you meant by this?
Its not they…its all desis. Every single desi I have met is a master of exxaggeration.
Why would it not be okay to marry into a Hyderabadi family? Is it okay to marry into a Punjabi family considering they also have the same exact traits your friend is so afraid of?
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^punjabis are awesome and punjabis are very good host./QUOTE]
If you don’t think your posts come across as condescending…then I don’t know does. Now in your mind, you’re thinking “what? she’s taking this the wrong way!” Putting it the right way is YOUR job…not anyone else’s.
Your intentions don’t matter…your form of expression does. We have no idea nor is it our business to find out what you meant…its what you put out there that matters. And what you put out was not very nice…now if you think you deserve a gold star for this at the end of the day…its just not gonna happen.
lol now I can’t even explore other people’s post and ask questions. why don’t you wait for your gold star and degree from someone else. I already have those things AH, MA
oh if you are trying to prove I don’t like hyderabadis, its far from it. Please get off my back and find something else to do! I have tried ignoring you now, its not working.
