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england and i have lived with these english peopel alotsss and i know all races all religion types of friend so i know quiet about these people
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Sweetheart, you sound like you’re VERY young. You need to learn to look past stereotypes. I won’t bother listing all the terrible desi wives that I have seen people marry. Also, muslim or not, that is not necessarily important either as God does permit us to marry “women of the scripture”, meaning Christians and Jews. I will add that I married my wife when she wasn’t a muslim and I wasn’t much of a muslim. It was her who started learning about Islam and I still believe that it was HER who converted me to a muslim as I was just a ‘naam ka muslim’. So, it is unwise to condemn someone who might one day become a good submitter.
Finally, I do believe that as much as you might like to think you’re in control, all things are controlled by The Almighty and if He wills that you marry one person over another, no force on earth can change that.
God has decreed righteous spouses for the righteous and wicked spouses for the wicked.
[5:5] Today, all good food is made lawful for you. The food of the people of the scripture is lawful for you, and your food is lawful for them. Also, you may marry the chaste women among the believers, as well as the chaste women among the followers of previous scripture, provided you pay them their due dowries. You shall maintain chastity, not committing adultery, nor taking secret lovers. Anyone who rejects faith, all his work will be in vain, and in the Hereafter he will be with the losers.
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i know a lot of goris who a good practising muslimahs.......they r even more religious then most western paki girls alhamdulillah :) ..........
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i have alredy said tht b4 too :)
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yes you have said that b4........... and it's 100% correct :)
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my sentiments exactly lol
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You asked the wrong Question.
If you're asking about marrying a Gori - who is non muslim. I wouldn't, or perhaps I would if she is willing to convert.
If you're asking about marrying a Gori - who is muslim. Then yes I would.
Although it is also stressed in islam that one keep culture and values in check it is not a necessity, and it has been left up to the person who wants to get married. This was explained when the Prophet pbuh used to tell people to marry within their tribes, or other tribes with similar status. Or Tribes that were high in status. Although this was recommended, it wasn't fardh upon someone to follow it, only recommended.
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Generalizations r always made abt ppl from all races. As a lot of u know, i married a gora convert and hes more islamic then many "pakistani" guys i know.
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Everyone Stay on topic -MWP
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different people have different problems nobodys perfect ..but a gori whos not
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I stress again, whoever wants a gori should come with me (in about 2-3 years) to the Northern areas. We’ll make a whole, as the members like to say, guppy meet out of it, lol. She’ll be muslim and a beauty, all we’ll have to do is stress to them the perils of hygiene.
So who’s in? 
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lolzzzzzzzzz
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id want my kids to be 100% Pakistani ....hence I would only marry a Pakistani :)
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^Right On!!!
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as if that would really help our society and our ummah...
to each it's own :)
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I think this thread isnt looking at the issue in quite the right light. The country of birth should not be as big a deal as the "match" between the guy and the gal, how they will be able to get along in the country or area that they decide to live in. Just an example....I could see my eldest living in Pak, he will get along best with a sweet home-maker type who WANTS to be a home-maker. My middle guy will need a strong, career-minded, outgoing gal who can live and enjoy living in the western world. My youngest...not quite sure yet but so far seems to be in-between the other 2.
When you start discriminating on country of birth and eliminating whole groups or classes of people based on generalities, you just may be limiting your chances at fulfillment and happiness in life I think.
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ive come to realize that many ppl on here that only want to marry a pakistani and are not open to any other race are usually not that religious to begin with or because they parents wont allow it .....therefore they could careless about how religious one is...they will ONLY marry a paki...even if he/she isnt half as religious as the non-paki muslim.
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Hmmm… i wonder what would have happened if your parents/grand parents would have said that, you might have been Indian.
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When you start discriminating on country of birth and eliminating whole groups or classes of people based on generalities, you just may be limiting your chances at fulfillment and happiness in life I think.
well said^
you are just limiting yourself to whats out there for you. People need to broaden their horizons a bit.
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didnt u know....paki and indians are the same :D