Re: married women..
It's not about obedience. If you base your relationship around what you have to do and what you're ordered to do, rather than what you want to do based on your closeness, then you're off to a bad start.
My husband is my best friend. If he feels neglected, I would want to change that. I can't imagine myself spending hours talking foolish nonsense with friends on the phone. An occasional night out or hanging out at home with my friends is different. But most of the time, we are together.