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Some people can’t move on, tho can they.. It’s also possible to die of a ‘broken heart.’ It can happen with humans and animals.. Surely that intensity of love is true love..
Also, would you say the same about the love you have for your parents or family, can that be easily replaced if you have a new mother or father figure and if not why?
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Some people can't move on, tho can they.. It's also possible to die of a 'broken heart.' It can happen with humans and animals.. Surely that intensity of love is true love..
Also, would you say the same about the love you have for your parents or family, can that be easily replaced if you have a new mother or father figure and if not why?
I'm not saying there is no such thing as pure or true love. I am saying that humans have the ability to find pure or true love again if they were heart broken the first time or if they move on for whatever reason.
Married people, was your first love, really a love?
^agree but first true love can never be replaced
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Its the will of Allah happened a long time ago for me but still you learn to live with these things. My Wife and the mother of my children understands that she was not my first love and that I had no choice in things back then. Back then there was not much attention paid to diseases and treatment in our village so my first wife died before even a full year had passed.
In my heart I never wanted to marry again but things are not ours to decide, one thing led to another and many years later I helped my current wifes fammily through a lot of difficuilty and my Mother tried to persuade me to settle down again. It took a lot of effort for both me and my wife and before we were married I told my mother to tell thier fammily and not hide anything about my past. But they still did not mind so the parents fixed it.
Fate is something no man can decide.
Very sorry to hear that dost. My prayers are with your first wife and your family.
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^are you married
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Yes
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^ With kids ?
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I'm not saying there is no such thing as pure or true love. I am saying that humans have the ability to find pure or true love again if they were heart broken the first time or if they move on for whatever reason.
I agree with CDG. True love is just a perception. Only very late in your life, by looking back into your past, one can do comparative analysis of which love of his/her was a true love.
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Personally, I think love comes in different shapes and forms and intensities. What is the definition of true love? I think every love is true. First you gotta figure out if it is love.
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personally i like when it comes in a good shape. nothing worse tahn squished love. :\
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yeah, those can be gooey.
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Love? What love?
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my first love and last love is and will still be TOM CRUISE 
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You are in luck.
He is available again. Grab him while you can.
Convert him and earn some sawaab. :k:
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detailsss plsssss!!!
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TC is getting a divorce from his 3rd wife.
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I cannot understand the concept of "madly in love" or "true love". I think every nice feeling that you get in your teenage years is is pretty much different degrees of infatuations or ........... lust.
I am married and I think i love my husband. I like him. I can't think of living without him and I like to do things that he likes. He care about me and I feel a spark in our relationship. I am satisfied with my life and happy. I suppose it is love. how can you tell.
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Even when you find true love in your first love, sometimes things happen, rather life happens and things dont stay that rosy anymore. I have seen some couples who have been married for years and seem 'in love' but it does take lots of hard word and effort to keep love and spark alive.
Love is a relative term IMO...
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ye love kia hy?
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yes yesssssssssss yesssssssssssssssssssss
i was sooooooooooooooooo happy to hear this news… waisay bhi bari behan lagti thi kate uski 
Tommy sweetie