Re: Married people, was your first love, really a love?
I was a dil phenk aashiq until i met this one girl who i fell for, we were together for 4 years in a relationship (total 7 - first 3 years we were "friends") and thats what i regret the most, things got messed up and it ended. 3 years later i met this girl to whom i opened up completely about my past and for some reason she still fell for me and we are happily married now, thinking back all the other escapades i had including the long relationship were not at all love infact i feel i got into a relationship cuz everyone else was and i did not want to be the odd one out.
That being said I did not learn anything from my past experiences :D but one thing that i do realise is that when you come across real LOVE you just know it and things happen one after another. Baaqi sab Allah kee marzi !!