Many of us have moved on in life and a bit mature now. Based on what you know about love now, do you think that your ‘first love’ (think way way before you met your spouse or fiancé – the one that happened when you were 16-17-18 or so) was really a love?
I was not quite shareef before marriage (not very hard for you to guess), but when I now think of those encounters (yes its plural), I feel angry at myself. What stupidity was that man? In my case, it was not even hormones. It was more of a check mark. *Hey, everyone has a GF, I should do that too or I would look like a loser. *All those encounters were mere liabilities and pure headaches. So in my case, it was far from love. It was immaturity.
The one I really loved, I ended up marrying, against all odds.
Now you open up, you so called shareef people of GS.
Re: Married people, was your first love, really a love?
As an indian i was quite a secular person in matter of love..hope you all get it:D
we all expereiment, dont we :D
Thanks God didn't get married to him.
Did he say the same thing?
Joke aside, that is what I am talking about. Our first experience is way way far from what true love is. I am not sure if love evolves or if its something you need to benchmark against another experience, but either way, the first experience is very infant in nature and then because we were never in love, we had no idea what it should feel like and believe that we are in love,
Re: Married people, was your first love, really a love?
If I knew then, what I know now, that first "love" would never have developed/happened. He would have stayed a platonic friend.
I still would not trade that experience for the world though. As young and naive as I was, that experience helped shape me into the person I am today and believe or not, taught me a lot about the realities of love, life and relationships.
Re: Married people, was your first love, really a love?
we all expereiment, dont we :D
Did he say the same thing?
Joke aside, that is what I am talking about. Our first experience is way way far from what true love is. I am not sure if love evolves or if its something you need to benchmark against another experience, but either way, the first experience is very infant in nature and then because we were never in love, we had no idea what it should feel like and believe that we are in love,
lol...I don't know. He wasn't even attracted to me (may be coz I was too young for him) but once I got married he started showing interest but then I said bleep off.
