Re: Married people, was your first love, really a love?
Hmmmm the first guy I liked, I def thought it was love, did the whole bollywood drama thing (only in my head though 
)…obviously I know better now. I mean there was somethign to learn from it and there’s no regrets there but..yeha.
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My first love was the most fragile... only death could take it apart and death is a cruel reality of life.
You can never get over the pain. It scars you for life but it also shapes you and moulds you into something else... you can never walk away from the loss. You carry it with you and nothing ever erases that pain... over time though you just bear it.
Re: Married people, was your first love, really a love?
My first love was the most fragile... only death could take it apart and death is a cruel reality of life.
You can never get over the pain. It scars you for life but it also shapes you and moulds you into something else... you can never walk away from the loss. You carry it with you and nothing ever er ases that pain... over time though you just bear it.
:(
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very sorry to hear that Faris
Re: Married people, was your first love, really a love?
If I knew then, what I know now, that first "love" would never have developed/happened. He would have stayed a platonic friend.
I still would not trade that experience for the world though. As young and naive as I was, that experience helped shape me into the person I am today and believe or not, taught me a lot about the realities of love, life and relationships.
awww. love what you shared~
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ahmmm. you are my bro. 
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Its the will of Allah happened a long time ago for me but still you learn to live with these things. My Wife and the mother of my children understands that she was not my first love and that I had no choice in things back then. Back then there was not much attention paid to diseases and treatment in our village so my first wife died before even a full year had passed.
In my heart I never wanted to marry again but things are not ours to decide, one thing led to another and many years later I helped my current wifes fammily through a lot of difficuilty and my Mother tried to persuade me to settle down again. It took a lot of effort for both me and my wife and before we were married I told my mother to tell thier fammily and not hide anything about my past. But they still did not mind so the parents fixed it.
Fate is something no man can decide.
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Faris: 
Re: Married people, was your first love, really a love?
mere pyaar to Hind o Pak kii sarHad khaa gaii 
maiN is paar thaa vo us paar thii aur maiN gaataa rah gayaa!
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mere saajan haiN us paar, maiN is paar
o mere maajhii, le chal paar, le chal paar!!!
**
par, maajhii ne farmaayaa k beech meN sarHad Haa’il hai!!! … ham chaar o naa_chaar vaapas ghar ko aaye! 
Re: Married people, was your first love, really a love?
Its the will of Allah happened a long time ago for me but still you learn to live with these things. My Wife and the mother of my children understands that she was not my first love and that I had no choice in things back then. Back then there was not much attention paid to diseases and treatment in our village so my first wife died before even a full year had passed.
In my heart I never wanted to marry again but things are not ours to decide, one thing led to another and many years later I helped my current wifes fammily through a lot of difficuilty and my Mother tried to persuade me to settle down again. It took a lot of effort for both me and my wife and before we were married I told my mother to tell thier fammily and not hide anything about my past. But they still did not mind so the parents fixed it.
Fate is something no man can decide.
Sorry to hear about your first marriage.
How old were you then ?
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panchi nadian pawan kay jhonkay wala to mamla nahi hai.
Re: Married people, was your first love, really a love?
panchi nadian pawan kay jhonkay wala to mamla nahi hai.
vo din gaye, miyaaN!, jab MQM se poochh ke hawaayeN chalaa kartii thiiN!!! :D
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vo din gaye jab MQM se poochh ke hawaayeN chalaa kartii thiiN!!! :D
lol. app ki ghalat fehmi hai. ajj bhi aik isharay par hawaon ka rukh mur jata hai. :)
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lol. app ki ghalat fehmi hai. ajj bhi aik isharay par hawaon ka rukh mur jata hai. :)
ab, zaKhm pe namak to na chhiRko, bhai! :(
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mager hai kon app nay zakham kabhi dikhaya hi nahi. :@:
Re: Married people, was your first love, really a love?
Its the will of Allah happened a long time ago for me but still you learn to live with these things. My Wife and the mother of my children understands that she was not my first love and that I had no choice in things back then. Back then there was not much attention paid to diseases and treatment in our village so my first wife died before even a full year had passed.
In my heart I never wanted to marry again but things are not ours to decide, one thing led to another and many years later I helped my current wifes fammily through a lot of difficuilty and my Mother tried to persuade me to settle down again. It took a lot of effort for both me and my wife and before we were married I told my mother to tell thier fammily and not hide anything about my past. But they still did not mind so the parents fixed it.
Fate is something no man can decide.
May Allah give your first wife, best place in Jannat
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mager hai kon app nay zakham kabhi dikhaya hi nahi. :@:
zaKhm bhii koii numaa'ishii shai hai jisko dekhaa aur dikhaayaa jaaye? :)
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acha to phir us zakham ka naam hi bata dijye
Re: Married people, was your first love, really a love?
acha to phir us zakham ka naam hi bata dijye
lo ji, tum bhii kia yaad karoge!
Miss. ZaKhm-un-nisaaN :)
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nam say hi kafi khon khar lagti hain.