Re: Married ladies, would you feel insecure
i don;t know but i'm sure the guy comes across hot, talkative women at other places too. It's more about his faith, their relationship, and how he treats/views women in general etcccc
Re: Married ladies, would you feel insecure
Yes, I agree the ability to trust is connected to your own nature, i.e. many women have a shakki mizaaj and question every action. But, having the trust of another is connected to the actions of the recipient. You have to earn trust, not take for granted that you're entitled to it.
Re: Married ladies, would you feel insecure
Trust baad ki baat hai, I wouldn't want a woman who dresses carelessly working in my home, period.
Our response would be pretty simple ..
Islamically, there should not be a namaharam women or man in your house, as these things tempt us as humans.
haha love it! TLK Baji is very lucky!!!
Dhut tere kee, sara mazaa kirkira kar diyaa 
I did not mention but in the case that I mentioned in my OP, the maid was suppose to come to work during day time when hubby is at work anyways. Wife still felt threatened and did not hire her. 
Trust baad ki baat hai, I wouldn't want a woman who dresses carelessly working in my home, period.
I dont mean over carelessly, maybe a button or two open. casual stuff for many cultures.
Our response would be pretty simple ..
Islamically, there should not be a namaharam women or man in your house, as these things tempt us as humans.
:ASA:
See, apni baari aati hai to you bring in the namaharam card. Pehlay hi is sawaal ka ye hi jawaab kyun nahi diya?
Trust baad ki baat hai, I wouldn't want a woman who dresses carelessly working in my home, period.
I can understand that. Islamically there are reasons that a relationship of this sort is forbidden.
What would make sense is to have the maid regardless of her looks, age, and attire, come do her job while the husband is at work and finish and leave.
A women such as this sets bad examples for kids, both males and females. Females will think well why can't I dress like that, males will think women are supposed to dress like that.
Overall it just creates a negative envoirment. This is something that should be avoided at all costs possible. (not the fact that she is attractive, the fact that she doesn't cover her body, and is talkative.) A women on the job should have the common sense to dress conservatively and keep conversations to a minimum. If your talking you obviously aint work. A women that cannot meet the minimum requirements of any job probably isn't worth keep around.
i don;t know but i'm sure the guy comes across hot, talkative women at other places too. It's more about his faith, their relationship, and how he treats/views women in general etcccc
I agree.
:ASA:
See, apni baari aati hai to you bring in the namaharam card. Pehlay hi is sawaal ka ye hi jawaab kyun nahi diya?
I just quoted Desi Beutii. She said that to me, I copy pasted the same back to her.
I did not mention but in the case that I mentioned in my OP, the maid was suppose to come to work during day time when hubby is at work anyways. Wife still felt threatened and did not hire her. :D
Although, given this latest twist, if the husband has no interaction with her - what's the wife's problem? It's not as if the husband is overseeing her work or am I missing something?
Just so long as the maid doesn't dress like a tart - wouldn't want someone like that in my home.
I dont mean over carelessly, maybe a button or two open. casual stuff for many cultures.
If this women is working in the US, there are guidelines and rules at most jobs, (other than strippers) requiring to keep all your buttons closed, your skirts a certain length, etc. All employees are required to follow these guidelines, if they are unable to do so... they can always find a job at a bar.
Sorry if that is a little harsh.
Re: Married ladies, would you feel insecure
Shak’kee mizaaj aurtain .. saree kee saree 
lo… ab baat ghuma rahay hai… jayein mein nahin khailtee TLK bhai :pcg:
Although, given this latest twist, if the husband has no interaction with her - what's the wife's problem? It's not as if the husband is overseeing her work or am I missing something?
Because she is a bad example. This may not be someone a women would want to keep around her MIL, FIL, kids, nieces, nephews, and guests.
I agree.
I just quoted Desi Beutii. She said that to me, I copy pasted the same back to her.
haan haan blame it on me!!! lol
Re: Married ladies, would you feel insecure
Being a muslim women is hard in this society, the way you dress, the food you cook, the way you raise your kids, the company you keep, and the help you hire displays your character and lifestyle.
ufff, zakhmon par namak chirak diya… kiya bataaoon mein… humaray office mein bhi yeh rules hain, lekin kiya kiya pehen kar aati hain… tauba tauba.
Aur mairay husband kay office mein tau tauba, woh tau aur bhi khullay dullay hain
Although, given this latest twist, if the husband has no interaction with her - what's the wife's problem? It's not as if the husband is overseeing her work or am I missing something?
Just so long as the maid doesn't dress like a tart - wouldn't want someone like that in my home.
You know how IT guys can work from home every now and then. Maybe wife was proactively thinking of such occasions.
If this women is working in the US, there are guidelines and rules at most jobs, (other than strippers) requiring to keep all your buttons closed, your skirts a certain length, etc. All employees are required to follow these guidelines, if they are unable to do so... they can always find a job at a bar.
Sorry if that is a little harsh.
Not really. I've seen ladies with half chest hanging out, or in see through blouse, or too tight clothes, who are working in stores and other public places.
If there are no adult men in the home (like her father/siblings/husband) then thats pretty sad and insecure of her to still feel threatened.