Re: Married but still having dreams about your ex-girl/boy friend.
I have dreams about my hubby getting back with his ex 
Re: Married but still having dreams about your ex-girl/boy friend.
dream or nightmare? 
I can help you with that. Aik aachi see chattraoll and everything will be good and dandy! :D
99% of the guys in the world need that. Kitno ko theek karenge :D
nightmares 
…it makes me hate the poor girls for no reason 
Re: Married but still having dreams about your ex-girl/boy friend.
lol that sucks
Re: Married but still having dreams about your ex-girl/boy friend.
Rockistan I like the little saying at the bottom of your screen its cute and very sensible.
Well you sound like a mature man and I am sure you know this is wrong but its your unconscious doing this and so its really not your fault. Do as Niksik says and read the 4 qul and most importantly make sure you keep your conscious clear of any ill or impure thoughts about your ex.
Inshaallah all will be well with time.
Re: Married but still having dreams about your ex-girl/boy friend.
Rockistan...it's just a dream. You have no control over your dreams. Just let it be and stop worrying about it. The more you worry about it the more you will think about it.
The only time this dream can become a problem is if you act upon it (ie call her, meet her, email her etc.). If you love your wife the way you say you do, you'll stop thinking about it and stop talking about your dreams with others.
If you happen to have this dream again, upon waking from it....recite a dua and turn over.
Re: Married but still having dreams about your ex-girl/boy friend.
I'm not acting upon the dream at all. I'm trying to avoid it if anything. Also talking about your dreams doesn't determine the love you have for your spouse. Sometimes you have to seek advice and ask questions that end up solving your problems. Nothing wrong with sharing your dream with strangers...
I'm not acting upon the dream at all. I'm trying to avoid it if anything. **Also talking about your dreams doesn't determine the love you have for your spouse. **Sometimes you have to seek advice and ask questions that end up solving your problems. Nothing wrong with sharing your dream with strangers...
of course not....I'm not saying that at all.
However, talking about your dream will only make you think about it more. Thinking about it, consciously or subconsciously can perhaps lead to more dreams.
no one on this forum can help you solve this problem because like I said before.... you nor anyone else has control over your dreams. So try not to think about it much and dont worry about it. InshAllah in due time it'll go away on its own :)
lol that sucks
oh you don't know, I wake up and I wanna hit him but then i realize hes probably at peace dreaming about his cars.
Re: Married but still having dreams about your ex-girl/boy friend.
Re: Married but still having dreams about your ex-girl/boy friend.
:(
Re: Married but still having dreams about your ex-girl/boy friend.
awww lol
Re: Married but still having dreams about your ex-girl/boy friend.
AWWW then u shud feel sorry about ur self na… y e cursing our Xs 
Just because you have precious memories of something doesn't mean it can't bother you down the road. Problem is I'm completely satisfied with everything but I hate waking up in the morning with an exotic dream about my old gal. Not only that it ruins the entire day for me cause I don't want anything to do with it anymore. I wish there was a delete option.
ur hopeless i feel really bad for ur wife n u actually thought
ur ex did jadu on u?its not jadu its ur dimagh ki karabi.i will kill myself if i get to know my husband is dreaming about his ex.dreaming about it i know its not in ur control but making an issue out of it is wrong.how wuld u feel if ur wife dreams about her ex n then discuss it with random strangers?
ur hopeless i feel really bad for ur wife n u actually thought ur ex did jadu on u?its not jadu its ur dimagh ki karabi.i will kill myself if i get to know my husband is dreaming about his ex.dreaming about it i know its not in ur control but making an issue out of it is wrong.how wuld u feel if ur wife dreams about her ex n then discuss it with random strangers?
I'm sorry but I'm a normal guy.. We all can't be perfect like yourself you know.
In this specific dream I kept telling her that I don't remember telling you how beautiful you are and I kept saying that to her while she was laying beside me in bed. She cooked food for me and sang a song with me that we liked a lot (mora sayian by fuzon) only paki song I ever liked and she was crying in the dream. I wake up feeling guilty and crap. Luckily I'm out here in Philadelphia (business trip)away from home. (i miss home)
rocky, are you still away from home?
because then that's the problem...you're actually missing your wife. see our dreams don't work logically as we give them credit for. you're missing home, and your wife, and her company, and so all that is manifesting in your dreams as your ex. don't worry too much about it. i think once you go home it will get better. forget about the dream, call up your wife and then have a big dinner once you get home.
hmmmm…wow…its sad and i really hope k soon you will get rid of your ex dreams…
p.s…im not picking on you rockistan but just in general…why is it so hard for guys to really move on…i mean deep inside they still remember their past…i know i know they were once part of their life and you cant just erase those memories but still…i guess i can never understand…
I think it’s harder for the girl to move on. Men move on easily because I’m just talking about dreams here, females tend to think about it on a regular basis. Cry, share stories, etc…
I'm sorry but I'm a normal guy.. We all can't be perfect like yourself you know.
no IM sorry if i came harsh on you but honestly try putting urself in ur wifes shoes its just wrong.more ur gonna talk about it more ur gonna dream about it.n i dunno about ur ex but seems like ur the one who still is a lil hung over