Just because you have precious memories of something doesn't mean it can't bother you down the road. Problem is I'm completely satisfied with everything but I hate waking up in the morning with an exotic dream about my old gal. Not only that it ruins the entire day for me cause I don't want anything to do with it anymore. I wish there was a delete option.
If its affecting your "performance":p, then you need professional help.
Re: Married but still having dreams about your ex-girl/boy friend.
Dude you sound like you genuanly love you wife. This ex obsession would go away.
If your wife every say you hearing her name then just explain it to you wife that was your past. And how much you love your present, which is your wife.
You're obviously thinking about her too much.
If you really love your wife as you say then you need to work on your conscience. The best way to do that is to first make a decision and ask Allah for help.
I think we can agree to disagree because that's not the case here. She was really close to me at a time but things didn't work out. I don't think about her at all to be honest and I don't know how I get these dreams. Could it be possible she did some jadoo wadoo crap?
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Then all the more you need to do dua, especially at night. Read Ayat ul Kursi, and the 4 Qul.
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I will do that. I know the 4 qul but not ayat ul kursi (only like the first 2 lines) but I'll def. give that a shot.
uuf pagalay whti mean is u cant do ANYTHING about it… it is happening with u now n it will come around again n the future… u cant stop it
TLK thnx or makn it worse…
Re: Married but still having dreams about your ex-girl/boy friend.
only solution to this problem is , that every one should have a gf/bf relation with future wife/husband.
So if you dream about gf you actually dream about you wife.
Problem solved!!
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^^ yea...
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oh oh another thing u can actually spice up ur marraige life with ur wife yeh...
everytime my time comes around i get dreams n thoughts bout my X bf i just sspice things up beteen me n my hubby ....u try it :)
ohhh for tht exotic part u cant do nething about it.... u can c an actress a porn star a person u saw once n ur life time walkn down the side walk n u can c them n ur dreams (exotic) ones so thts sumthing u cant help it dreams r reflection of ur past n future present too ....
^i was gonna suggest that too
I think we can agree to disagree because that's not the case here. She was really close to me at a time but things didn't work out. I don't think about her at all to be honest and I don't know how I get these dreams. Could it be possible she did some jadoo wadoo crap?
lol..as weird as it may sound..it is possible.
if u cheated her slept with her n then left her dated her just to get n her pants n when she didnt let u … u left her…
i cant believe m telling u al lthis but yeh if ne of above she can get really mad n jado kerwa sakti he 
Dude, I thought you were an aunty but you sound like a kid. No, I didn’t cheat her, didn’t date her to get in her pants and last but not least you sound like you’re a professional lol.
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profession of…:aq:
I think we can agree to disagree because that's not the case here. She was really close to me at a time but things didn't work out. I don't think about her at all to be honest and I don't know how I get these dreams. Could it be possible she did some jadoo wadoo crap?
I can help you with that.
Aik aachi see chattraoll and everything will be good and dandy! :D
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It's pretty rude and disrespectful towards your wife to dream, let alone think about your ex. BUT, like you said, it was a dream and you love your wife to death. Just stop thinking about it, dwelling on it and inshallah you will stop dreaming about her. Make sure you read your ayatul qursi and your quls before sleeping too ... just in case of jadoo. :p
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U know she might be reading this, do u really think it would be helpful to HER that ur openly talking about having dreams about her??? 
It's pretty rude and disrespectful towards your wife to dream, let alone think about your ex. BUT, like you said, it was a dream and you love your wife to death. Just stop thinking about it, dwelling on it and inshallah you will stop dreaming about her. Make sure you read your ayatul qursi and your quls before sleeping too ... just in case of jadoo. :p
Indeed it is pretty rude but I don't happen to have control over my dreams. I'm sure you never faced this problem.
Nope, she doesn’t interact with GS any more. I told her brother to make her quit from everything that relates to me…she even deleted her myspace. You know me better sara 
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it's just a dream... enjoy ti and move on :p
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Sara, I didn't know where else to go to let it out. I don't mean any harm... just because it involves her doesn't mean I can't talk about it because she might read this post. I'd care less, I'm just trying to resolve my problem here. I got great advice reading 4 quls and ayat al qursi. Relax buddy :)