Re: Marriage falling apart 
The thing is I don’t want to leave him, he doesn’t want to leave me either, but sometimes it gets unbearable for me and I’m sure it gets the same with him. He doesn’t believe in counseling, saying it’s a “gora people thing”. Just like this, all his answers and suggestions often seem so uneducated and backward to me. It’s not just about school, school was just an example. It’s almost everything, from little to big. I understand there are disagreements in every marriage but then there is something called “narrow-mindedness”, that’s what all his answers are based on. I mean he’s a really nice and a good-hearted person otherwise, like I really feel lucky for that sometimes, but when we fight, everything seems like a nightmare. And obviously, our “intimate life” suffers as well since my mind is always too frustrated to “do anything”…and that brings up a whole another fight coz he thinks “I don’t love him anymore”. I mean really, how can you get intimate when you’re brain is all fried up and your heart broken into a million pieces? He doesn’t get it!