^^Tell me you were just joking here and i'll get off your back. Until then, this monkey is yours baby :)
What do you make of this after my above comment which you quoted , what am I trying to say, you tell me.
"You will have to earn his confidence and respect. It is a reality , the sooner you accept it the sooner you will learn to deal with it and trust me it is not a rocket science , you will learn to cope with all this in due time. Again so be patient and enjoy the show which is called married life."