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Yes, they do excist. Some of my dear friends (from various backgrounds) have similar relationships, masha Allah. Some have children, some don't.
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Why so much anger towards women diwana? For someone of your stature I expect better.** Is this how you view women at work too? Smelly lumps of flesh? ** Please remind me to not be your patient.
I don't think he's a practising doctor..
Have you ever heard of a real doctor who thinks NGOs are a western conspiracy lol
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^ Your dp, such an apt self representation
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Don’t be a ----! 
My post was to show there are women who do not complain despite having so many children.
I know you cannot read simple English …but why keep making up stuff!?
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Ji ji…typical.
Dosron ki ma, behen aur bivi is just another complaining desi woman.
Inki ma, behen aur bivi ke baray mein koi kuch bolay to we get to hear galiyan.
Kyun?
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^Again? 
Why keep proving you cannot read or understand anything which is said?
The discussion is along general line. Do you really understand now?
Only I decide when I talk about my family members and how..not you or anyone!
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Your examples are few and far in between - they are not the majority and definitely not the rule.
The reality is more men complain about wives not wanting to be intimate.
*Why would a woman want to be intimate with someone who does not make an effort to attract her? * Instead of avoiding OBVIOUS realities and going in circles, its better to face reality.
The reality is - men share the blame when intimacy diminishes between a couple because it takes TWO to tango. Not one. There'd be no complaint if that was the case but there IS.
And those who are smart enough to realize this will be sooo happy ahead but those who don't will end up literally a hair away from the solution without even knowing it. Sexual fulfillment between a couple is one of Islam's gifts. Its one of the few religions that emphasizes the importance of intimacy between partners and teaches us how to tap into each other's desires. I think people who cannot see that are truly missing out because a motivated woman is also a hot one. Its sad but whatever...not my problem.
If husband is not a master in this art what to do?
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yesterday I met with this young beautiful couple that came to our bank, they had a beautiful baby daughter, the husband was tall and handsome and was kind, gentle and loving towards the child and the mom, The husband didn't treat his wife and their daughter like garbage, no disrespect and no anger towards the wife and daughter.
i too met this one with this description.
yesterday I met with this young beautiful couple that came to our bank, they had a beautiful baby daughter, the wife was tall and handsome and was kind, gentle and loving towards the child and the husband, The husband treated his wife and their daughter like garbage, full disrespect and full anger towards the wife and daughter
Yea they were elminator and honey.
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Lets not drag in real moms. Everyone's parents are precious and be nicely kept out of arguments.
Two days ago met with a woman who delivered 17 kids. Youngest being 18 years old and herself being 64 or so.
No anger, no disrespect for her husband and no remorse.
And so called liberated women and copy cat desi women who cry and expect their husbands to treat them as rose petal in a storm....when they deliver the second baby.
ji daai-wana ji.
oops did i just say something.
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Lets just say I quited you for the sake of quoting, otherwise, I cannot see any substance to it. Sorry.
Absolutely agree to when you said a woman has to agree to have sex with the husband.
NOW:
Would you then agree that in case the husband does not find the woman as his wife attractive enough for ANY reason whatsoever and going out and spending time with other woman should be acceptable by those wives?
I know a woman (not from desi land) who is more than overweight ( the new term for them is 'phat').... and even her co-workers have mentioned her smelling from down there.......... when she comes close to these women and her husband has not made any move towards her in a while.
She still expects him to be pro-active and talks ill of him for not doing so.
My point is that it goes both ways: ** Try not to show, it is the men who are at fault if sexual attraction is failing between husbands and wives. **
Forget about preparing for their husbands,
I say please at least take a bathe or shower.....
Water is cheap women!!! **
Please take shower married or not. (I know a lot of desi and non-desi women who are scared of water even if they have a bathroom in their houses) ** Why can't women take bathe or shower everyday and sometimes twice a day is my question..............
Men know, a lot of women wear the same clothes/dress again without being washed or dry cleaned since they cannot be..
...........and still have sweat smell from 6 months ago. J/K :D
As she was continued in brackets. :)
When a woman is rejected sexually, she does not really feels pretty about herself.
And if she does that would be very unusual and weird of her to still feel pretty about her.
As to your other sentence:
Women in general cannot force themselves on men for not being strong enough physically.
If they were physically equal then,............. they might have been forcing themselves over men too...........
.............and the feminists would have not much to argue about. ;)
Diwana apka wasta Duniya sey wakhri larkiyu ke sath hi parta hai. I have rarely seen girls who don't take care of themselves. Women's are so conscious of their look, smell, dress and what not. Women's you get interacted with are hardly seen.
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i too met this one with this description. yesterday I met with this young beautiful couple that came to our bank, they had a beautiful baby daughter, the wife was tall and handsome and was kind, gentle and loving towards the child and the husband, The husband treated his wife and their daughter like garbage, full disrespect and full anger towards the wife and daughter
Yea they were elminator and honey.
Hahahahahaha! This was funny. Where is eliminator gone?
Neither is a woman. Two people have to understand each other and find out what makes the other happy.
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Lets not drag in real moms. Everyone's parents are precious and be nicely kept out of arguments.
ji daai-wana ji.
oops did i just say something.
love is in the air.. Why don't you guys get a room already.
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It seems that if given a choice some posters would choose not to be born out of a mothers womb, would be funny watching a burly man trying to give birth, I think they would squeal so loudly.
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You got some weird fanatasies hotti eliminatori. Did u just jizz yourself while you thought that out?
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You got some weird fanatasies hotti eliminatori. Did u just jizz yourself while you thought that out?
That word that you mentioned is probably cleaner than you on your best day, I can imagine pewner drenched.
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diwana, IMHO, its no use being too decent, sometimes you have to answer the morons in their own language.
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I think after viewing all the pages i just want to kill myself lol..Ladies will be soo happy-->the world will be rid of 1 idiot ..I am loosing confidence in me being a responsible male homo sapiens..Discouraging statements--Tense mode on
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You have no respect for your own mother? She is a female, gave birth to you and deserves to be respected.
Never doubted your capacity to sink low but you woman, have outdone yourself
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You have no respect for your own mother? She is a female, gave birth to you and deserves to be respected.
Why are you taking a dig at his mother? Did you slip out of a drawer? Don't you have a mother?
Or is it bcoz the thread struck a chord with you. Did ex-hubby made you do things, you didn't like?