Marital Rape......

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It is complicated, most of the time it is the girls dumping the guys, they are financially, physically, emotionally independent. Since divorce is not a stigma there are many men waiting when one leaves, most of the step dads are kinder and gentler than the biological dads here. They spend amazing amount of time and money on the kids. Just one example this twin girls I know are 12 and competitive hockey players travelling all across north America competing, step dad invests countless hours taking them to practice and tens of thousands to pay for programmes, most of the white kids swim, ski, skate, camp, hike and many more activities and most of desi kids stay home because of so called loving parents yell at them to show caring and don't have time and patience for them. How many desi Olympians do you see. When you see the Olympians behind them are parents that dedicated a life for them

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^And the earth is flat and the moon is a plate. Making ignorant, factually incorrect statement doesn't make one sound more convincing. Firstly, those single mothers are not married to begin with, so they are not divorcing anyone. Secondly, no there are not many men waiting, for every 100 unmarried women, there are 88 unmarried men. Thirdly, single mothers & their kids do worse than those in stable families. So women with men who love them, commit to them and their family are much better off.

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If words would only matter as much actions, when it comes to words we are so pious then we are rated number one in watching gay porn in the world, we are high in child labour, child abuse and infant mortality and disease. Low in education and literacy rates, don't look very lovey dovey happy situation to me...what are you on, send some to me.

By the way stable homes are not stable if they are only stable in abuse...such amazing parenting, why did you not produce Olympians, also if your stable homes are raising such amazing generation, why are we still using donkey carts for transportation

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Somethings are just common sense and its shameful for a person to justify one's crass behavior on the technicalities of religion when it comes to these matters. I think most of these problems rise due to poor education about intimate affairs. A relationship is based on love and understanding, and for one to force himself on an non-consenting partner is just plain wrong.

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I dont know if thats true or not. But I was wondering why there might be a **pattern **of step dads being kinder, gentler and more supportive than biological dads? Any thoughts?

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I was talking about some biological Desi dads who yell scream, berate and often beat their kids in show of amazing love, but when comes time to play ball with little Bashir they have no time

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You keep coming up with one irrelavant argument after another, so i am not going to continue with this crap any longer. BTW, go check how many olypmians come from stable, loving, functional families and how many from broken, drunk, single parents.

Marital Rape......

Wow..
Fudged up.

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First have the intelligence to differentiate between drinking and drunk, most of the athletes drink and their parents and friends drink and no one comes from a family where marital rape is considered acceptable, many come from divorced families.

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Biggest athlete ever Michael Phelps who has more medals than some countries will have in a thousand years comes from a broken family...We start getting rude as soon as facts don't support us.

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May Allah guide all of you on right path.

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If men and women for once learn to love each other and not to deny each others to fulfill their sexual desires,

...there would not be any need to discuss or believe in such a ludicrous and stupid idea of so called marital rape, invented by femanazis to put down men.

Despite that most of these famanazis may not live happily without men...unless..

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So the UN is Faminazis..even the Nazis didn't believe in marital rape.

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[quote="diwana, post:64, topic:305272"]

If men and women for once learn to love each other and not to deny each others to fulfill their sexual desires,

...there would not be any need to discuss or believe in such a ludicrous and stupid idea of so called marital rape, invented by femanazis to put down men.

Only prostitutes are obliged to gratify sexually, the day you stop appreciating, respecting and honoring your spouse she has no obligation of sex, in good families it is called love making, in the absence of love it is a dry run...or get friendly with the cell mate, some people end up on the receiving end.

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Only idiots and ignorant believe in the term such as 'marital rape'....it is an oxymoron to even say the term as marital rape.

*Married people (Men or women) should never deny their partner's sexual advances and sexual need, under any circumstances. Period.
*

Learn this once and forever! Will ya?

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[quote="diwana, post:37, topic:305144"]

Only idiots and ignorant believe in the term such as 'marital rape'....it is an oxymoron to even say the term as marital rape.

*Married people (Men or women) should never deny their partner's sexual advances and sexual need, under any circumstances. Period.
*

Learn this once and forever! Will ya?/QUOTE

You are talking about
The idiots that will colonize mars, have a space probe billions of miles in space and can see and weigh atoms. You are right you are the smart one.

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This is called Anecdotal fallacy. you can't use an isolated example, instead see the pattern the follows types of families.

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^Maya Angelou was sent to live with her grandparents when her parents’ marriage ended.

Oprah Winfrey was born to an unwed, teenager mother and sent to live with her grandparents.
Lance Armstrong never knew his birth father.
Notorious B.I.G. was abandoned by his father when he was 2.
Kate Beckinsale’s father died when she was 6.
Halle Berry was abandoned by her father when she was 4.
Mary J. Blige was abandoned by her father when she was 4.
Orlando Bloom’s died when he was 4.
Pierce Brosnan was abandoned by his father before his first birthday.
Mariah Carey had little contact with her father after her parents divorce when she was 3.
50 Cent never knew his father and lost his mother when he was 8.
Eric Clapton never knew his real father. He grew up thinking his grandparents were his parents and his mother his sister.
Bill Clinton lost his father in a car accident 3 months before he was born.
Stephen Colbert lost his father and two brothers in a plane crash when he was 10.
Sean Combs was 3 when his father was murdered
Jodie Foster grew up without a father; her parents separated before she was born.
Jamie Foxx was abandoned by both his parents and raised by his adopted grandparents.
Cary Grant grew up thinking his mother had abandoned him when she really was in a mental institution.
Adrian Grenier grew up not knowing who his father was.
Laird Hamilton was abandoned by his father when he was an infant.
Samuel L. Jackson only met his father twice during his life.
Jay-Z was abandoned by his father.
Alicia Keys grew up without a father.
Kid Cudi lost his father to cancer when he was 11.
Martin Lawrence rarely saw his father after his parents divorced when he was 8.
John Lennon grew up without a father and lost his mother when he was 17.
Jet Li lost his father when he was 2.
Lindsay Lohan grew up without a father while he was in prison.
Shelby Lynne lost her mother and father in a murder suicide when she was 17.
Madonna lost her mother to cancer when she was 5.
Paul McCartney lost his mother to cancer when he was 14.
Eva Mendes was raised by her single mother after her parents divorced.
Marilyn Monroe grew up without a father.
Demi Moore was abandoned by her father before she was born.
Eddie Murphy’s father was killed when he was just 8.
Jack Nicholson never knew his real father.
Shaquille O’Neal grew up without his birth father.
President Barack Obama met his father only once before he died in a car crash.
Clive Owen was abandoned by his father when he was 3.
Al Pacino grew up in his grandparents’ home with his mother.
Audrey Hepburn was sent to boarding school at age 5; at age 6 her father walked out.
Mariah Carey eventually became estranged from her father after her parents’ divorce when she was 3.
Guy Pearce lost his father in a work related accident when he was 8.
Mekhi Phifer never met his father.
Sarah Polley lost her mother to cancer when she was 11.
Ellen Pompeo lost her mother when she was 4.
Gabrielle Reece lost her father when she was 5.
Keanu Reeves was abandoned by his father when he was 13.
Julia Roberts lost her father when she was 10.
Alex Rodriguez was abandoned by his father when he was 7.
Ronaldinho lost his father from a heart attack when he was 8.
Jason Schwartzman lost his father to cancer when he was 13.
Tupac Shakur grew up not knowing his birth father while his stepfather went to prison when he was 2.
Anderson Silva was raised by his aunt.
Gene Simmons was abandoned by his father when he was 3.
David Spade was abandoned by his father.

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^ I guess the moms did just fine in raising such incredible human beings, there is a reason why moms are considered 3 times superior to dads...Ps how would a marital rapist dad face the children when the are grown up bigger and taller than him....will he go I am sorry son you and your mom are hanging with Faminazis..

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A single mom can provide a way more stable environment than a home where the mom is being sexually assaulted, If the monster raping his wife cared about his children at all, rather than raping their mother he would be helping prepare lunches for them, taking them to soccer practice, helping with home work. Not doing Dhoti Main Dhamaka