MK your assumptions about reciting the Quran are pure ignorance. You have no clue yet you prefer to type the assumptions with such certainty!! says a lot about your stance on other issues.
again i feel like i am repeating myself...It IS shirk, I dont know who is coming with these claims and attaching them to our Prophet (pbuh). It is THEM who are being disrespectful!
Clever argument Monk. I guess we should all stop offering Salat the way we do cause no where in Quran it is mentioned how to offer prayers. We learned it through Bukhari and according to you, Bukhari's authenticity is not guaranteed.
I have a feeling that if this thread goes any further, it is going to split in to two and a part will be moved to religion section. I hope it does not happen
Religion aside, if you are nice to your spouse, meaning you aren't disrespectful (in other words, you don't swear, you don't hit, you don't make filthy comparisons, you aren't cruel), you mostlikely won't have any issues. Your wife will probably go out of her way to make you happy if she sees you are a nice and caring person.
Why is this so hard to undertsand? Why does everything need to be turned into a battle of 'the ego'?
Chanda, if you are questioning the authenticity of this hadees then I have nothing more to offer. Its up to you to take it as a fabricated hadees or an authentic one. I am not the boss of you.
see salat is some thing else.
Here we are almost going 180 degrees from what is basic essence of Islam. Which Is only God is is God.
And even when with your parents you align your self with Allah… so you can see where your parents are diversing from Right path.
I said what I always thought about this M-khuda thing. I kicked my lil brother A$$ when he called him self that.
I don’t want to argue.
Mehnaz, isn’t it amazing that not many people think like you. If only we had relationship’s criteria as simple as you nicely put. Ego kills all relationships.
Monk, i just dont want to use my original nick to talk about this topic. I am happy that you figured out who I am. Rest of what you are saying, I have to read it again to understand.
Religion aside, if you are nice to your spouse, meaning you aren't disrespectful (in other words, you don't swear, you don't hit, you don't make filthy comparisons, you aren't cruel), you mostlikely won't have any issues. Your wife will probably go out of her way to make you happy if she sees you are a nice and caring person.
Why is this so hard to undertsand? Why does everything need to be turned into a battle of 'the ego'?
I am truly baffled by this..apparently you guys have not learned anything from the stories in the Quran about firon and others, their ghuroor, and the consequences of even the thought of putting oneself "next to god"
I don't understand why women are saying that if it indeed was an order then they'd prostrate before men. Well, my answer is simple, I believe in one God and if the religion of Islam ordered me to prostrate before a human then it would contradict the WHOLE concept of our religion and if that was the case then I would not be following this religion, PERIOD! I know that it's in the Bible(old testament) which clearly orders women to prostrate before men and I obviously don't believe in it so it would be pointless to ask if I'll do it if Islam ordered it to me!
You have a very wrong concept of the religion of Islam. To prostrate before Allah is not the respect of Allah's oneness, to follow his orders is the respect of Allah’s oneness. When Allah ordered Angles to bow in front of Adam, the one who refused (with pretty much the same reason that is given in your post) is now called Satan. Religion is about following orders, not about pick and chose.
Before going any further, your first duty as a muslim is to provide the source if you are going to have these urges to speak on behalf of Prophet Muhammad SAW. Where in Bukhari? Here I will help you: use the search option here for complete collection of Bukhari, post the hadith here, then we can have a discussion (right) over it.
As for the hypothetical situation, if god ordered me, I’d prostrate before Shaitan even, forget wife<-hope that gives you a bit of perspective.
MK A smart person can make things pleasure able in a relation. Such a strong statement should never come into play. If things get there, its time to step back, cool off. and then start enjoying again.
Prophet Muhammad PBUH said, if there was one sajdah allowed besides bowing before Allah swt, I would have asked you to bow before your husbands.
This is not the only example in Islam that your husband is your way to Jannah and vice versa. There are many ayahs in the Quran that talk about the importance of your spouse such as, you're created from each other, Allah swt puts love between your hearts and a couple is each other's cloak. And contrary to popular belief, a wife has the SAME rights as the husband does.
Religion aside, if you are nice to your spouse, meaning you aren't disrespectful (in other words, you don't swear, you don't hit, you don't make filthy comparisons, you aren't cruel), you mostlikely won't have any issues. Your wife will probably go out of her way to make you happy if she sees you are a nice and caring person.
Why is this so hard to undertsand? Why does everything need to be turned into a battle of 'the ego'?
Right and there should be no problem if I do sajda for my husband if its ALLAH's order.
Prophet Muhammad PBUH said, if there was one sajdah allowed besides bowing before Allah swt, I would have asked you to bow before your husbands.
This is not the only example in Islam that your husband is your way to Jannah and vice versa. There are many ayahs in the Quran that talk about the importance of your spouse such as, you're created from each other, Allah swt puts love between your hearts and a couple is each other's cloak. And contrary to popular belief, a wife has the SAME rights as the husband does.
Thats not true husband do have more rights then wives
Prophet Muhammad PBUH said, if there was one sajdah allowed besides bowing before Allah swt, I would have asked you to bow before your husbands.
This is not the only example in Islam that your husband is your way to Jannah and vice versa. There are many ayahs in the Quran that talk about the importance of your spouse such as, you're created from each other, Allah swt puts love between your hearts and a couple is each other's cloak. And contrary to popular belief, a wife has the SAME rights as the husband does.
Not same exactly...like a wife cannot give talaaq, she can take khulaa which is slightly different. Just one example.
Not same exactly...like a wife cannot give talaaq, she can take khulaa which is slightly different. Just one example.
I meant in terms of caring and loving for each other. The wife isn't the only person who is suppose to give all that she has, the husband needs to be equally loving and respectful.