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I have been told that the time to life-long love, is to find a guy who about an 5/10 with potential for improvement.. then when hes in love with u, get him a haircut and take him shopping.
I have seen this sucessfully executed many times.
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Personality and it don't matter about the looks anyone can look good
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^ "anyone" is huuggeee... er... optimism..?
Definietly personality is better becuase this is what he/she has been know for.
However this is not true, no matter how good her personality is "the girl" has to be pretty and thin then and only then she can be asked for her hand in marriage.
Ive got a few girl cousins who have passed their age for marriage because of their looks and weight. Even though they have the best education and have a good job.
phsttttttttttttt what a joke. ppl only say that, they dont actually take action according to what they say. one of the examples of hypocrisy. anyway lemme ask u, do U really mean that?
lol seems like you really came here to point out my post. yes I agree with you that people don't actually do whatever they say or claim. If a person is good looking then I won't resist admiring his/her beauty and smartness but if I find him/her abusing or cursing then definitely I would prefer to stay away from such people no matter how they look. For me your LANGUAGE that makes the personality.
BOTTOM LINE insaan dekhnay main khoobsoorat ho but jab wo munh kholay to koi uss ki taraf dekhna bhi passand na karay :) jis ko baat karnay ki tameez na ho uss ko koi kaise tolerate kar sakta hai, atleast I don't ignore such things for the sake of beauty.
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Both .
a modest beauty is like an enchanting dream..rare
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simple "Mohabbat us se nahi hoti jo khubsoorat hota hay balky khubsoorat woh hota hay jis se app Mohabbat kartain hain".
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one thing I realized as a married man, the personality is what you should try to find out first. Apperance should have a secondary place. Trust me. Give the character a chance. If you miss attraction pray to Allah that he shall give attraction to your wife. He will not make her a beauty queen, but you'll find other things in your wife which beat attraction and you start seeing and dreaming of the paradise.
I love my wife how she is. Not that Bigboi has a ugly girl, but Bigboi's dream of big things and I think I have hit it. Characterwise ;)
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^ Awww how sweet!
I agree that personality is most important. If you're lucky enough to find someone with a brilliant personality, judging by the posts made on this forum, you should count yourself very lucky!
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I count myself very blessed.
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for the longest time- it was all about looks for me. but things might change...and this personality attraction business is leading me down a very wierd path..
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i'd let go and try and find someone who has a good personality and who i find attractive. i know personality is what counts the most but u also need that element of physical attraction in a relationship.
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First impression is the last impression
no matter what we say, fact of the matter is that people with good looks always gets 2nd chance ....
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I think personality matters...if the guy is good looking but seriously stupid how can u ever have a proper conversation...after all once u grow old...looks fade away but his personality is what wll keep u company.
for girls it's personality and for guys it's the looks that are important. Some guys who aren't so bright they prefer personality over looks.
Good one :)
as a man, if there is no physical attraction, I can't imagine a girl as my sig. other (regardless of how good the personaility is).
that goes for any guy..
that goes for any guy..
Uhh, so what do 90% of husbands do after a few years of marriage? Ever heard of the saying, "Behind every hot girl there's a guy whos tired of sleeping with her."
As hot as a wife can be, you're going to have to deal with her morning breath, killing the bathroom, burping etc. The looks will start to deteriorate over time too... So what does a guy who cares about looks more than anything to do?
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i've never faced this issue before. i can NEVER like/love someone just based on how they look. no matter how hot the guy is, if his personality sucks then it's a no no. on the flip side if i see that the the guy has an amazing personality and he's well, average looking..i'll somehow find him physically attractive.
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looks. ab mei aik jungli se to nai shaadi kar skti na:)