So the bechara, masoom son was living peacefully with his parents for 27-30 or so years of his life without any problem, and didnt leave when he was much younger, which would have made much more sense. After his marriage he suddenly has an awakening, that he needs to leave, that he needs to be independent. And you say the wife has nothing to do with that? Sorry, I dont buy that.
Agree with the part that its better to leave before things get worse.