So lets say you meet a person. They are everything that you’re looking for in your significant other except for the fact that you do not find yourself physically attractive to that other person. At least not as much as you would like to. So my question is what do you do? Do you go for them for the personality and hope that the attraction will build once you hang out with them more or do you just let go and find someone who you are more physically attracted to …
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standard answer- looks shouldn't matter. or... you can find both in a person.
real answer?--u can always shut ur eyes and think about (insert hot dude/girl). but u cant replace a personality.
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personality always trumps looks...and slowly the looks grow on u too
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Good looking people are great to look at just like a hot new expensive car. the question is...will we go out and buy that car just because it's good looking or will we take other qualities into consideration. At least I won't develop friendship with anyone just because he/she is good looking. the good looks will get me to notice him/her initially but he/she also has to be as great on the inside as on the outside or forget it. for me the personality is what matters.
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personality .....counts a lot.
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for girls it's personality and for guys it's the looks that are important. Some guys who aren't so bright they prefer personality over looks.
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personality..
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Personality :k:
Good looks only will not make you happy in life.
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Everyone knows only Monies matter.
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hmmmmmm, if i dont know the girl then looks are more important, however if it comes down to the scenario that LIBRAN mentioned, well if i have a good understanding with the person, i am comfortable around her then looks dont matter :D
So lets say you meet a person. They are everything that you're looking for in your significant other except for the fact that you do not find yourself physically attractive to that other person. At least not as much as you would like to. So my question is what do you do? Do you go for them for the personality and hope that the attraction will build once you hang out with them more or do you just let go and find someone who you are more physically attracted to ...
Here in south India some nonsense,smelly girls have a weird definition ,thats personality is only a person's outer-look and nothing else.
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its up 2 u ..whatever ur comfortable with..2 each their own
for girls it's personality and for guys it's the looks that are important. Some guys who aren't so bright they prefer personality over looks.
Come again?
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I think people are making it purely into a look vs personality thing ... of course the girl with the looks would have some personality characteristics that you would prefer ... so would you wait out for the grl that is both attractive with 60-70% of the personality that you like or go for a grl who has 85-95% of the pesronality that you require but does not have the physical attractiveness
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Personality BUT there has to be some sort of attraction.. I dont want to turn over in my sleep and see an ugly guy drooling, snoring and pouring out bad breath... the attraction will help me overcome what horror image i may see at that time... May god NEVER put me in such a situation
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Good looking people are great to look at just like a hot new expensive car. the question is...will we go out and buy that car just because it's good looking or will we take other qualities into consideration. At least I won't develop friendship with anyone just because he/she is good looking. the good looks will get me to notice him/her initially but he/she also has to be as great on the inside as on the outside or forget it. for me the personality is what matters.
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phsttttttttttttt what a joke. ppl only say that, they dont actually take action according to what they say. one of the examples of hypocrisy. anyway lemme ask u, do U really mean that?
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Well you can clean him up, though. Some nice smelling after shave and sending him off to the gym. :k: does wonders.
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as a man, if there is no physical attraction, I can't imagine a girl as my sig. other (regardless of how good the personaility is).