Looks vs Personality

[Obama]

@libranrulz

So lets say you meet a person. They are everything that you’re looking for in your significant other except for the fact that you do not find yourself physically attractive to that other person. At least not as much as you would like to. So my question is what do you do? Do you go for them for the personality and hope that the attraction will build once you hang out with them more or do you just let go and find someone who you are more physically attracted to …

So which part of a person defines their Soul…

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their personality or their Looks?

[redvelvet]

Re: Looks vs Personality

I think for a marriage…both aspects are essential: physical attraction and a compatible personality.

Regardless of how the world views your partner’s looks…YOU should find him/her attractive.

Perhaps that physical attraction wasn’t there in the beginning. Maybe it developed after you got to know him/her better. Regardless of how it develops…i think it’s an important quality to have along with compatibility. Although, with time…relationships evolve…attraction lends a sort of spark.

[McPendo]

Re: Looks vs Personality

Putting a bag over the head works wonders as well.

[Sara516]

@Eye4Eye

Uhh, so what do 90% of husbands do after a few years of marriage? Ever heard of the saying, “Behind every hot girl there’s a guy whos tired of sleeping with her.”

As hot as a wife can be, you’re going to have to deal with her morning breath, killing the bathroom, burping etc. The looks will start to deteriorate over time too… So what does a guy who cares about looks more than anything to do?

They cheat or at the very least ogle girls and flirt with them.

[NJMasti]

@Bigboi

one thing I realized as a married man, the personality is what you should try to find out first. Apperance should have a secondary place. Trust me. Give the character a chance. If you miss attraction pray to Allah that he shall give attraction to your wife. He will not make her a beauty queen, but you’ll find other things in your wife which beat attraction and you start seeing and dreaming of the paradise.

I love my wife how she is. Not that Bigboi has a ugly girl, but Bigboi’s dream of big things and I think I have hit it. Characterwise

khushi ke aasu

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[Eye4Eye]

@Sara516

They cheat or at the very least ogle girls and flirt with them.

90%?

[Sara516]

Re: Looks vs Personality

^ I dunno about 90%…but while I am sure not all guys cheat, alot more definitely look at girls or models etc.

[Eye4Eye]

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Guys do get tired of looking at the same person all the time.

[Sara516]

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^ Guess what. so do women.

[Eye4Eye]

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I know that already. No harm in checking out another person.

[Yea_Boii]

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Well personality can change, looks can’t. Keep this in mind folks.

[zobia]

Re: Looks vs Personality

^ plastic surgery

[libranrulz]

Re: Looks vs Personality

well habbits chng nature doesn’t soo thats something else to consider

[Gina]

The sum of good looks paired with a charming personality and what ticks inside the head.

[Hassan007]

@libranrulz

So lets say you meet a person. They are everything that you’re looking for in your significant other except for the fact that you do not find yourself physically attractive to that other person. At least not as much as you would like to. So my question is what do you do? Do you go for them for the personality and hope that the attraction will build once you hang out with them more or do you just let go and find someone who you are more physically attracted to …

You know this is very interesting question. As much as i prefer personality over looks to an extent i also prefer looks. I mean..i want my wife to be good looking and beautiful too. When i know we fellows are on demand..we shouldn’t settle for less. I think somebody in this forum said that…we fellows are visual creatures..and this is absolutely right. And especially for physical relationship. ; )

[questioner]

Re: Looks vs Personality

ummm both

he needs to be good looking, intelligent, kind, generous, sweet, cool, not fat, not short, not dark, not bald etc etc

when i can be both good looking and intelligent, toh woh kyu na ho

[Decent_6Chora]

Re: Looks vs Personality

Looks only compliment the personality…

people with ONLY good looks are normally advised not to open their mouth …i.e talk

[asma786]

Re: Looks vs Personality

personality eventually the looks grows on you ,there should be at least something you find endearing after a while.

[sa-Nafooz]

Re: Looks vs Personality

i think for a good relationship(marriage) personality and physical attraction count…if the personality is really good an d you think there’s a possibility of being physically attracted to the person then you should go for it…you could go for personality only in the case were physical relations arent a necessaity in your life…

[s_mk]

I * used * to be hot.NOW I think my poor guy just got dhokafied.