So lets say you meet a person. They are everything that you're looking for in your significant other except for the fact that you do not find yourself physically attractive to that other person. At least not as much as you would like to. So my question is what do you do? Do you go for them for the personality and hope that the attraction will build once you hang out with them more or do you just let go and find someone who you are more physically attracted to ...
So which part of a person defines their Soul............
I think for a marriage.......both aspects are essential: physical attraction and a compatible personality.
Regardless of how the world views your partner's looks.....YOU should find him/her attractive.
Perhaps that physical attraction wasn't there in the beginning. Maybe it developed after you got to know him/her better. Regardless of how it develops.......i think it's an important quality to have along with compatibility. Although, with time....relationships evolve....attraction lends a sort of spark.
Uhh, so what do 90% of husbands do after a few years of marriage? Ever heard of the saying, "Behind every hot girl there's a guy whos tired of sleeping with her."
As hot as a wife can be, you're going to have to deal with her morning breath, killing the bathroom, burping etc. The looks will start to deteriorate over time too... So what does a guy who cares about looks more than anything to do?
They cheat or at the very least ogle girls and flirt with them.
So lets say you meet a person. They are everything that you're looking for in your significant other except for the fact that you do not find yourself physically attractive to that other person. At least not as much as you would like to. So my question is what do you do? Do you go for them for the personality and hope that the attraction will build once you hang out with them more or do you just let go and find someone who you are more physically attracted to ...
You know this is very interesting question. As much as i prefer personality over looks to an extent i also prefer looks. I mean..i want my wife to be good looking and beautiful too. When i know we fellows are on demand..we shouldn't settle for less. I think somebody in this forum said that...we fellows are visual creatures..and this is absolutely right. And especially for physical relationship. ; )
i think for a good relationship(marriage) personality and physical attraction count....if the personality is really good an d you think there's a possibility of being physically attracted to the person then you should go for it.....you could go for personality only in the case were physical relations arent a necessaity in your life...
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