living together

hareem01 · August 11, 2011, 11:00pm

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OP wants to keep us all curious by not telling everything in one post.

inspiron · August 11, 2011, 11:00pm

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you MIGHT be hurting his wife....major understatement.

Look girl seriously think about what you are doing, he is MARRYING someone else, he doesnt want you enough so why ruin your life for him?

mama_ki_dua · August 11, 2011, 11:09pm

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I have a feeling that the OP's being sarcastic

Sara516 · August 11, 2011, 11:10pm

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erm yes?

Naabigh · August 11, 2011, 11:10pm

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well it would be characterized by profound disruption in cognition and emotion, affecting her most fundamental human attributes: language, thought, perception, affect, and sense of self.

The array of symptoms, while wide ranging, frequently includes psychotic manifestations, such as hearing internal voices or experiencing other sensations not connected to an obvious source (hallucinations) may also occurred to her

Naabigh · August 11, 2011, 11:12pm

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IP lookup

Naabigh · August 11, 2011, 11:13pm

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ab kuch bolOn ga tu logh bolain gay k bolta hai :)

mama_ki_dua · August 11, 2011, 11:14pm

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Reha · August 11, 2011, 11:19pm

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Enigmatic · August 11, 2011, 11:29pm

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no comments ! :no:

strawberry87 · August 12, 2011, 12:03am

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You have GOT to be kidding me! I hope this is all a joke :S

Otherwise, you basically opened a thread to ask us if there is any "personal" harm in living in a flat as a mistress to a man whose getting married to another woman. How can you as a woman do this to another woman? Firstly, NONE of you women should be with this man, he's not serious about anything and only wants the best of both worlds. Secondly, YES there is personal harm in this for you, for her and probably him as well. Anyway, this is what I deduced from what you have said thus far. So forgive me if I am mistaken

KKF · August 12, 2011, 12:12am

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it's NOT clear from your post if you already have **crossed the 'LINE'**** or you have *DONE 'IT'.if you have*** then it *makes NO difference* if you live together...*if NOT,*** then it's of course *Haraam to live* 'together'....and, finally one more IF...*if you have a *separate bedroom**** for yourself and you *maintain your 'DISTANCE', then *it's alright i suppose! :)

ll_xx_ll · August 12, 2011, 12:37am

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im completely confused by this thread

webmister · August 12, 2011, 1:05am

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There is harm only if you overdo it.

soconfused · August 12, 2011, 1:39am

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wow. that is all.

psyah · August 12, 2011, 3:39am

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Even trolls need partners

STA · August 12, 2011, 3:54am

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ripplesaround:

I wasnt really planning to bare my soul here but I guess I need to vent it out somewhere. Basically I have been with this person for the last four years but yes it feels like forever! I havent moved in with him officially, but we have been living together since a year or so. Yes,yes,yes I’m aware its not right according to Islamic laws and I’m committing a horrible sin, though i’m not a religious person really. ( spiritual yes). I moved in for right reasons according to my gut, to make it easier for myself to care for him. Marriage wasnt a option back then, because he simply didnt want to marry at that time. And I never asked.

Now after one year, the person is getting married to someonelse. in 3 weeks. He’s got a new house etc. So basically I would be living with him though he wont be around all the time anymore. (hehe) Maybe that would make some people here feel better. And, would that be a little more acceptable?

islamic law is only applicable to religious people.

The_Jinx · August 12, 2011, 4:15am

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haha. 'nuff said.

diwana · August 12, 2011, 4:36am

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Either the troll or OP is afraid of telling the details.

Weird relations do occur though.
If this is true then OP perhaps knew he is not interested in her but for some reasons had hope or had no other choice.

Deeba1234 · August 12, 2011, 6:06am

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OP, are u actually wanting to be his other wife or just a mistress or gf?? Either way try putting yourself in the shoes of the poor girl who's going to marry him.

Also, why would you want to be his 'second best' and let him use you when there's a guy out there who** will** love you just as much as you love him and actually respect and care for you.