Re: Living in a joint family in North America
No, if you gonna keep taking digs at Pakistani culture and keep harping that you not a Pakistani and how things so nice and different in your country, we deserve to learn about the name of your country . Otherwise don’t even bother drawing comparisons between Pakistani culture and your unknown country. Its so funny when it comes to just asking about to name name of your country, you are all oh I’m following my husband’s orders, he told me to, I do whatever he tells me to do, I respect him, his words bla bla bla yet you have the nerve to dispute the idea of Pakistani girls living with in laws if the husband does ask his wife to live with his parents? Shouldn’t you be making the same hippie talks of respecting and abiding by husband’s wishes in that regard also? Is hypocrisy and double standards also part of your country’s culture?
So please don’t moan about Pakistani culture being all this or that because in our culture, just like you, girls do end up respecting their husband’s desicion. Doesn’t matter if they end up respecting something which in your country isn’t worth respecting. So show some respect to our culture and don’t dispute it on the basis of what goes on in your nameless country.