Re: I don't like kids
i totally love kids too.... and there is an advatage to having them... i heard an alim talk about parenting and what not, and he was like: your kids could be one of your biggest investment for akhirat... everytime they pray, fast, do any other deed that pleases Allah SWT, you will get reward for it irrespective of whether u r dead or alive... bcoz u r the one who has installed those values in them :)
Plus, all of those who pray 5 times a day (and i'm not counting the sunnat), read rabbig alni muqeen as salati...... and u end up praying for your parents mughfirat like 5 times a day! Subahallah. Imagine having a never ending sadaqa jariya.... it will help us in our graves inshallah and in the akhirat.