hugz
did you get my salamz.. well thats what confused used to tell me "salam phonch gaya"
glad to see you around.. I miss all old guppies and you absolutely are in top 5 of my list..inshallah I 'll give you a call soon once am free and got plenty of time to talk about you and Canada. :)
amarrr, by the looks of it, I am sure Qrius isn't all that comfortable with the restrictions on her. So U might feel ppl asking her to speak for herself are BSing, but honey it's the right way to be. It's sweet that he loves her and is possessive, but isn't love more about trust? Anyway, I don't wanna start a feud here..so be happy and let us BSers BS away.
It’s good to see you back Q. So, is he alright with you posting now?
Don’t disappear again. 
Qrius.
You were missed.
Inshallah things will work out. 
Q, this is non of my business but this line really bothers me, especially since you're being told that everything is ok. "coz i could have ended up with a divorce". Hamesha hansti muskurati raho and taking a stand doesn't mean kicking someone's butt :) As long as you're comfortable with your life, everything is perfect :)
Qrius, welcome back…I don’t know if you remember me, but I remember you were the first one who praised my lousy voice when I sang something in the audio gallery…Man, that was such a long time ago…
Things changed and I actually became a sort of Mullah…So no more songs though, no matter how much you praise me now…
I definitely remember you and most definitely welcome you back…
welcome back.. great to hear from u.. interesinglymost of the guppie girls who were married never came back..
plus ur husband is rt as there r guys like Matsui whose only purpose in life is to make others miserable.. we live in society that provides us many intangible benifits and we just can discard it for some gains.. we have to liveand work things within its framework..
Welcome back.
Life is the name of the Game
Qrius, I missed ya, your posts have allways been an inspiration for me. Somehow I didnt understand why you didnt post after marriage, but now I do. As about talking with guys, a lot of desi guys don't like this, its the way they have been brought up with .. this is one of the main differences that girls and boys from different environment (west / east) get, I am happy that you gave priority to your marriage .. dont worry, if you guys are still in Canada, your husband will slowly understand it and will change with time, its mostly the environment that influences us in "good" and "bad" sense.
Welcome back Q, … .. it was really nice seeing you posting again… I hope things are better now for you.. i kno just gettin married makes a huge difference in life… I can only things will only get better for u in the future.. u surely deserve it … you will be in my prayers…!
kaki a gayi kaki a gayi 
challo issi khushi me rall ke karte hai
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*Originally posted by ShiNoO: *
Ammar, after reading ur post this bit threw me off. Why would u want things to 'improve' after writing all of the above?! I mean you just said urself u don't see anything wrong with what her husband says.
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he meant that she ll become happier, maybe you didnt notice, but Q baji sounded a bit down :)
Life comes in chapters, ek ke bad dosra phir tesra…
Our darmeyaan main bohat sarey tests
I hope you pass with flying colors :k:
hey hi there na 
i njoyeeeeeeeeeeed meetin u so much na esp ur 
qasam say na, i cud hv sat their da whole day just listenin 2 da duniya jahan ka stuff u enclose in urself ( esp faizy’s burayian :halo: ), n u know wat u simply look kool dat way, smilin, talkin, sharin, bein happy
just b alwayz like dat
btw maturity is not in age numberz it’s in doin da best u can 2 live thru ur life n ab tuk u r doin jus fine
Hi Qrius and welcome back. It's great to have you back and I don;t believe any one of us here forgot about u.
What u told is a little disturbing though You have a lot of patience and courage to be able to give in so completely. Maybe if he had read your posts here he might have realised that he could trust you with others and others with u. I don;t remember anyone messing with you or disrespecting you. From the looks of it you don;t seem very pleased about your compromise and you r not wrong to feel so..if you do. But something as harmless as participating in GS could have caused divorce is indeed sad. Has he given up anything too or is the sacrificing part strictly your domain? Is he okay with you coming here now?
All I can say is that if that is what you have to do to make your marraige work out, and you have made the choice to give in completely then may Allah reward you for your efforts and doing more than your fair share of compromise.
Only if people could be a little more considerate of others and give them their space.
FF, I will give you all the space you need. What do you need? I am thinking a 10X7 lot in the virginia woods should do it.
Welcome back bajii,
what do your parents think about his approach?
Doesn't he know you well know to know that you are
just friends with the guys you do talk to and not romantically
involved with them?
Welcome Back ... Allah karay aap humisha khush or moskorati rahain.
I agree with FF, a healthy realtionship stands on mutual trust
Welcome back Sameen baji, you were really missed..
I don’t know what else to say.. you truely are trustworthy and I hope your hubby understand that, nonetheless, your compromise to make things better is admirable and insha’Allah will lead to more comfortable path for both of you.. I’m sure it’s just another test in life and insha’Allah you will be rewarded for your patience, keep faith.. aap hamesha muskurati rahaiN.. may Allah always keep smiles on your face and serenity in your heart..