Kyoon hoon mai itni kaali?

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S02 June 21, 2004, 5:19am 81

Catty, I've seen your pics, and you are beautiful.

Beauty does not come from skin tone. It comes from your features, proportions, and, most importantly, the way your personality shines through.

You might stand out in your khandaan, but is that such a bad thing? You are different in some ways, similar in others. You should be thankful for all your good qualities, for I can tell that mashAllah you have many.

Rani_Pakistani June 21, 2004, 5:25am 82

catty i think ur fine the way u r
mashAllah ur soooo pretty n attractive…
aap ki piccys dekheen hein mene

sachi

dun worry…aap bohat khoobsurat ho…

rung ka khoobsurati se koee ta’lluq nahi hota

NiMMi June 21, 2004, 5:26am 83

Re: Kyoon hoon mai itni kaali?

*Originally posted by cat-woman: *
Its just not fair, Im the darkest person in the entire khandaan (and its quite a big khandaan), ranging from my dads family to my mothers family. My sisters are fair, my mums fair, my dads darkish, but all his brothers and sisters are fair and me, I dont know what scummy genes I got but I have taken completely after daddy dearest, and even he wasnt as dark as me at this age!! Noone in my family has ever given me a complex about my darkness, but they used to tease me in a nice way, I still get the odd ‘kaali billi’ thrown at me and some of my uncles and aunts tell me that Im the most attractive one in the family. Some relatives are more honest and say, hai today you look almost as pretty as Sophia (my sister).

And nowadays its summer and the sun has so not been kind to me, Ive turned this dark reddish colour, my arms look like chocolate.

Bas…I dont want to be kaali anymore, Ive had enough…I feel as though its been holding me back from many things and has severely affected my self-esteem. Im going to go the Wacko Jacko route (Michael Jackson)when I have the money. Thanks for the idea Kaka Atom Bum! :k:

kale ALLAH MIYAN ke pyaare

Aleezay June 21, 2004, 5:35am 84

Ha Ha Catty .. Mash'Allah u r so pretty .... y u need to worry about the silly thing like ur complexion?... that doesnt really suit u a bit.. honestly... well.. m dark... n m not really pretty at all... but well.. i've come to terms with it now.. i dont try new massages, creams and masks to clean my color any more... if i m born with this color.. i think i am supposed to stay with it ... all i can do is keep it clean and healthy.. m glad m not really prone to zits and pimples ( just one or two in three or four months... :-/ )... n i dont even have patches on my face... guess m lucky....

system June 21, 2004, 5:37am 85

and i think thats really pretty

ashtray June 21, 2004, 7:53am 86

…and you are shorter than a midget and your one leg is longer than the other and you are cross eyed but I still love you.

signed
A (gora complexioned) hunk with a heart of gold

Seedha_Saada June 21, 2004, 10:05am 87

[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by cat-woman: *

Seedha Saadha, is that a proposal? :p

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If its welcome! ;)

Sandleen June 21, 2004, 10:10am 88

lol @ ata …

this is cute thread ..
n bus mei ne bol dia only drak ppl are cute :k:..

thats it !!

vivek June 21, 2004, 5:31pm 89

bania is a businessman. I think it has a bad connotation so it could be an immoral businessman or something. why dont u ask matsui, he knows all about bania’s. im surprised the whities can tell paki’s part from indians. There must be a large concentration of paki’s wher u live. And you look pretty damn good. I wouldn’t care about skin color. Then again I dont get harassed about it.

Seedha_Saada June 21, 2004, 5:36pm 90

mera rang tawwe jaisa hai

STRONGMAN June 21, 2004, 5:55pm 91

Use sunblock

Rukhsarbibi June 21, 2004, 8:05pm 92

I hate the Pakistani mentality of Goray and Kalay!!!
hate it
hate it
hate it!!

Lusi June 21, 2004, 8:09pm 93

What is milk therapy?

_MuNiYa June 21, 2004, 8:41pm 94

i think your yummy just the way you are :)

Aalhan June 21, 2004, 9:47pm 95

Color isn't everything. Features are
equally as important. And moreso are the characteristics,
qualities, attributes, habits, outlooks of the person. If there
is a person unwilling to dive deeper than color, then you should
know for sure that you are better off the way you are.

mann-moji June 23, 2004, 6:16pm 96

..

who carez about being dark...you have a beautiful smile..

Sandleen June 23, 2004, 8:16pm 97

yep who cares ...just feel good, feel pretty and thats just what the world will see. :)

Xara June 23, 2004, 8:53pm 98

i dont believe this, Catty why the heck are you worrying abt something like that??? you have mashaAllah beautiful features, and a great shape

does your skin get irritated very easily by the sun? have you tried using anything with UV filters??

my skin is naturally very pale, lekin it gets burnt really easily, and if i stay out of the sun too long i end up looking like someone whose never been out in the light, and then ppl star asking whether im anaemic or something

i usually use the creams with light reflective pigments to stop the sunburn

you know catty i had a friend who had quite dark features, but its not the first thing people notice, i always used to think she was so pretty mashaAllah it was only after she told me she has dark skin i noticed it, otherwise people tend to notice other things, like your smile :) or the way you talk to people, and we all know you make friends easily so that says alot about you :)

Sadi_Sobi June 23, 2004, 9:27pm 99

Cat, your comment on 'scummy genes' and dark people was really silly.

My God, are you girls stuck in the dark (no pun intended) ages? Why do you still associate whiteness with superiority?

system June 23, 2004, 9:38pm 100

Why are you so black?