Its just not fair, Im the darkest person in the entire khandaan (and its quite a big khandaan), ranging from my dads family to my mothers family. My sisters are fair, my mums fair, my dads darkish, but all his brothers and sisters are fair and me, I dont know what scummy genes I got but I have taken completely after daddy dearest, and even he wasnt as dark as me at this age!! Noone in my family has ever given me a complex about my darkness, but they used to tease me in a nice way, I still get the odd ‘kaali billi’ thrown at me and some of my uncles and aunts tell me that Im the most attractive one in the family. Some relatives are more honest and say, hai today you look almost as pretty as Sophia (my sister).
And nowadays its summer and the sun has so not been kind to me, Ive turned this dark reddish colour, my arms look like chocolate.
Bas…I dont want to be kaali anymore, Ive had enough…I feel as though its been holding me back from many things and has severely affected my self-esteem. Im going to go the Wacko Jacko route (Michael Jackson)when I have the money. Thanks for the idea Kaka Atom Bum! :k:
awww, dont worry about it Catty. it’s the same here. I am dark t oo, and it can be hard when your mum can pass off as an italian or a gori or something.
but you have these gorgeous feature, mashallah. (i dont even have that ) so you have that to look forward too.
actually my cousin had this friend, who was also teased about her dark color, which wasn’t that dark either. but she was also blessed with these gorgeous big eyes and features. so i guess you are compensated somewhere.
so my point is, dont despair. (besides, one MJ is enough)
Cat!Perhaps a milk massage can help you in this situation.Uss ka procedure yeh hai k pehle poore face aur neck pe milk se massage karo achchhi tarha phir saaf cotton se clean kar lo...afterwards wash ur face with water, pat and dry with a towel.Do it on regular basis.It works......atleast it worked for me .....waise bhi milk is a natural whitner
Main sanwali nahin hun lekin gori bhi nahin hun....college days mein meri skin tan ho gayi thi so i tried milk therapy and believe me it did wonders for me :)
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Main sanwali nahin hun lekin gori bhi nahin hun....college days mein meri skin tan ho gayi thi so i tried milk therapy and believe me it did wonders for me :)
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here u are, this therapy worked cuz u arent sanwlee so what it did was to bring u back ur original color...wont work for sanwlis :-)
That's not the answer to my question. :-)
My point is you should start loving yourself first and then others will follow. All these 'awws'..'therapy ideas' ..'don't worry' black is good comments are pathetic
) so you have that to look forward too.
