Kyoon hoon mai itni kaali?

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Princess_Fiona June 24, 2004, 3:17am 101

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I am white i wanna be brown i hate being so white.. but i cant do anything, .. so Cat jano we ppl should thank Allah for whatever he has given to us…

shap_bee June 24, 2004, 8:19am 102

Re: Kyoon hoon mai itni kaali?

kalay …karmoon walay…

catty… there’s no problem inn being black… :love:

n Rukhsarbibi :k:

Xara June 25, 2004, 12:02pm 103

ive tried everything else, and this is the only cream that doesnt irritate the hell out of my skin, its also got light reflective pigments and UV block so it acts as a sunblock, and its not as shiny as well :)

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system June 25, 2004, 2:20pm 104

^ thats excellent.. i use that too

Zabardast June 25, 2004, 4:53pm 105

You all girls are kali...is that mean your ** * darkside... * ** :)

paki_maryam June 25, 2004, 6:13pm 106

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Same here I hate being so fair, I wish I were tan. Tan looks more healthy. And Catwoman you are very attractive, color isn’t everything. Be happy!

Arvind July 3, 2004, 8:39pm 107

Catty, although what Aalhan wrote is absolutely correct, if you want to lighten your face here is something that wroks very well. Go to your local Indian grocer (you are in UK or Us no?). There is a haldi ka face cream that lightens the skin in about 6 weeks. Mind you I don't want to get into a debate here whether you should do this or not. I personally like dark skin aur meri bibi is sanwli.

PyariCgudia July 3, 2004, 10:07pm 108

uh!

You're sexy. End of story.

No need to worry about skin color - Pakistani uncles are idiots and Pakistani boys are 2xidiots and since when does anyone listen to Pakistani aunties?

sweetpie July 4, 2004, 4:09am 109

Catty, be proud of yourself woman. Heck, before I saw your pic posted in the Image Gallery, true that I didn’t know your look but my opinion of you before and after having seen the pic hasn’t changed a tad bit. You’re a bright human being (given your posts since that is all I have to go by) so don’t waste your energy concentrating on the color element so much, kiddo. I know it sounds bizarre coming from a visually-inclined individual like me but it is true. Since when does a person’s color determine any other traits?

I am white (well not like gorey log but white…oh heck, it’s the whole light-olive-skin tone thing that I have going on…I don’t know how else to describe it…guppies, laugh all you want on my ‘olive complexion’ description I really don’t know how else to accurately describe it honestly ) . Even though I like my color alot, I also feel that you should be content with the color God has given you. Character-wise, I have met black, brown, tan, red, yellow, and white people who are not so pleasant and black, brown, tan, red, yellow, and white people who are simply amazing. Color means very little in the scheme of the more important things in life.

White is equated to superiority in our culture ingrained in our minds subconsciously from centuries ago by conquering tribes of the now-Pakistan region. However, this doesn’t mean that ‘sanwla’ color isn’t beautiful as well, which is the point I’m trying to make. In addition…a word of advice Catty…refrain from using color bleach creams unless you care to give in to the white-is-superior mentality.

orignal July 5, 2004, 3:21pm 110

you should be grateful for what u have got i mean i bet dat is the biggest problem in ure life,,,u being black,,,which aint necesarily a bad thing there are a load of ppl out there wid soo many problems n ure moaning about being black i cant believe it!
i suggest u be grateful for what you have! and quit moaning over something soo silly

Arvind July 5, 2004, 5:55pm 111

What have you got Catty?

the_paindoo July 6, 2004, 9:10am 112

Re: Kyoon hoon mai itni kaali?

*Originally posted by cat-woman: *
Its just not fair, Im the darkest person in the entire khandaan (and its quite a big khandaan), ranging from my dads family to my mothers family. My sisters are fair, my mums fair, my dads darkish, but all his brothers and sisters are fair and me, I dont know what scummy genes I got but I have taken completely after daddy dearest, and even he wasnt as dark as me at this age!! Noone in my family has ever given me a complex about my darkness, but they used to tease me in a nice way, I still get the odd ‘kaali billi’ thrown at me and some of my uncles and aunts tell me that Im the most attractive one in the family. Some relatives are more honest and say, hai today you look almost as pretty as Sophia (my sister).

And nowadays its summer and the sun has so not been kind to me, Ive turned this dark reddish colour, my arms look like chocolate.

Bas…I dont want to be kaali anymore, Ive had enough…I feel as though its been holding me back from many things and has severely affected my self-esteem. Im going to go the Wacko Jacko route (Michael Jackson)when I have the money. Thanks for the idea Kaka Atom Bum! :k:

Billooo tu we anj soch-dee way…

the_paindoo July 6, 2004, 9:26am 113

Cat Please spare them …

At times it is the loved ones that make point and make you conscious about things that do not matter and no matter how much you try it does effect you. I do understand mothers wanting what is best and you wanting your children to be gorey, but that is what you think is beautiful personally I think “sanwlee” look is … :love:

Consciously or unconsciously do not give them the feeling that they are “Kal-layee” or that the color of their skin matters. You could give them the best “education” but they will still carry the scars that the loved ones give. Making them have “low self-esteem”.

the_paindoo July 6, 2004, 9:34am 114

And yes remeber what majnoo said when some one said "teri Layla Kalii" and he replied "Teri akh nahee waikenn alie"