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Abortion after 13 weeks of pregnancy is a murder of an human being still to be born...so double trouble...hmmmmmm
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Wish my friend luck, I m going to go home get ready and meet him, hopefully it shall resolve peacefully,
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no its not mine.
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if it doesnt then shoot him, n keep the baby
oh n as for ur making mistakes part, well yea everyone makes mistakes but not everyone is a coward to run away from them.
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^^ ok second khala,
advice, yelling comes after.
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listen if he wants to kill his kid, i dont see why we cant kill him
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Next time when your friend is having unsafe sex or - you - think to yourself what the kids will look like.
Condoms will appear from no where ;)
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The mother to be is mostlikely going through the same shock your friend is going through Jasoos. You need to find out what HER thoughts are on this whole issue and what she plans to do. Ultimately, it is her body. Is she ready to be a mother? Is this something she wants to do at this point in her life? Is she willing or even want the father in the baby's life if she does go through with it?
Sit down and talk to her about it before deciding that your life/freedom is over. Your friend is in shock right now, but things may be different once the baby comes. It is surprising how many men are able to take on the responsibility they previously ran from once the baby is literally in their face.
IF she decides to keep the baby and does want the father around, your friend will have to just grow up and take responsibility for his actions.
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First things first, tell the Guy to get a paternity test taken…if it is his, then i agree with Mamaof3…it’s his responsiblity to take care of his child, marriage or no marriage…if their both muslims then the girl has a really hard road ahead of her and he needs to be supportive even if they decide not to get married…and if she’s a muslim girl and he will not marry her, then i think there is no choice but to abort the fetus even though i don’t like that idea…if they can, adoption is better, in my opinion…but yes, the important thing is that he needs to talk (and listen) to her about all this and together they must come to a mutal agreement…good luck 
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Femme why laugh? Plenty of people have done things the wrong way, then turned around and have become better people after it all.
Dating and premarital sex is one sort of sin, but then abortion (which is an option under consideration) is way worse of a sin. At least draw the line somewhere and behave like a muslim on some points.
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well that was a short meeting, it lasted less then 5 mins, she is keeping the baby.
dang, now he has to think of how to take care of it.
he is not happy, she told him off to his face, when he mentioned discussing the issue. i think she is in the getting old stage where all women wanna have kids.
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Discussing what issue? If a man brought up abortion to me, I’d also be telling him off.
Let this be a lesson to all those on this site who are sexually active… babies do “happen”. :halo:
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Hii Allahh… acha saa naam rakhna new born ka, jassooossay. Hope he/she is as cute as you :halo:
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I agree…
Come on everyone, let’s kill this jasssooossssa. He is the culprit!!!
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its not even my kid, why kill me.
however you can love me so that i may have a chance to get killed one day 
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making fun of someone’s looks is haram,