A guy went out with A girl about 3 months ago, they dated for a month, and yesterday while this guy was all relaxed and enjoying life, she called and said that she would like to meet,
So both parties agreed to meet and after the usual chit chat, the bomb was dropped. That she missed her monthly friend and is 100% sure that she is pregnant.
And that the baby is the guys,
What the heck, how does the guy make sure that the baby is his?
What should he do, he is in shock, (purely because he used protection). He thinks
First things first...change the brand of protection in the future.
They 'went out' or however you wanna call it THREE months ago for ONE month. So they haven't 'gone out' in the last two months and she misses her period now? Probably not his.
Theres a test called CVS (Chorionic Villi Sampling) that can be done in the 10th-11th week of pregnancy. It detects any genetic abnormalities AND can determine paternity. Another option is amniocentesis, same type of test. He should demand that the paternity be established....IF he's the father, he needs to take responsibility and if not, he's off the hook.
Mama of 3 and funguy have answered the question fairly well. I hope your friend has a hope to survive either way. If the kid is his, he shud take the responsibility.
and to clarify, the girl or her friend was late, and she did few tests, and she thought about how to approach this fellow, so the two month issue is not the main issue,
sorry Jasoos, but if he wasnt ready for the responsibility then he shudnt'a been so ready with his zipper if yopu know what I mean. He needs to face it head on, find out if abortion is an option, but above all, he has to stand up for what he's done. If he doesnt want to marry her, fine, just take care of his child.
Jasoos, stupidity isnt an excuse to avoid responsibility for your actions. Time to be a man, ready or not. If you want to play, be ready to pay as they say.
How relaxed she seemed to be when that bomb was dropped.
I hope this may not be the case as we are told by a third person so there are chances that the real story might be different.
Tell him to take stock of the things and wait for the parental-test confirmation before he starts worrying and worry he must if the child is his. He has to marry her.
