jus friends

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:ahaa: oooo oo oooo when did u graduate?

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4 years ago… why? :aq:

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just asking :cb:

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lol ok

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a little confused…:aq:

aren’t husbands SUPPOSED to be “good friends”… I mean there is a person who knows you inside out, you enjoy his company, you feeel relaaxed being with him and can relate every story to him, he cares for you etc etc…

what more do you want?

p.s. again, i am assuming you are in univ/colege. … if not then just boot him for now… tsk tsk… but do consider him afterwards…

o btw, a friedn of mine just got married to his girlfreind he met 9 years ago in high skool… you never know :rolleyes:

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ThAT’s so sweet and cute :blush::sara:

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yeah, mashallah, even though there were many “khandaani” hurdles… took a year for the khandaanz to accept it … I guess the bond was there, couldnt be broken… :hugz:

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i went to sheepshead bay high too.

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^ really.. how long ago? I might know you… :hmmm:

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^ off topic… :stuck_out_tongue:

:rule:

tsk tsk

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oi u dun even no how old i m
i think ur confusin me with pakipride786

AM NOT YOUNG PPL

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anywayz
cud u guyz PUHLEEZ stop talkin abt MARRIAGE
i dun even wanna GO there
hez my FRIEND damnit

i jus want 2 know an easy way 2 tell him i aint interested without hurtin hiz feelingz...nuthin else

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Yeh she’s like 14 I think..
How old are you? If you’re old, u should start thinking of marriag.e…(j/k..me in aunty mode tonight :snooty:

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Impossible to do...If your not interested then obviously that will hurt his feelings...but its the right thing to do...

Be blunt and clear...dont leave any ambiguities...he'll get hurt but thats his problem...

And like i said earlier make sure your mutual friends know what the deal is...he will get upset and it will damage your friendship...just make sure you dont look like the badguy....so make sure your friends know you didnt lead him on and he saw something that wasnt there...

Theres no easy fix...

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Just tell him you are not interested. Clean and Clear. You don't have to be mean about it, just say it in a nice way and he can deal with it. Atleast this way, he won't be getting any wrong impression such as MAYBEE YOU ARE INTERESTED and can move on.

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Totally, totally agree. Guys make for great friends, better than girls most times.

my good friend (best friend if u like) is male, and thats my greatest friend, confidant, pal..someone with whom i can be quite myself. I know him since a couple of years, and maybe around a year back, a sticky situation arose wherein he in a very roundabout, indirect manner told me he may have feelings other than that for me, i think he ws kind of watching my face intently and i understood. I just sort of grinned and told him i would never let him go. as a buddy that is, and would really never get over all of the time we've had together. Good for me, and for him, he understood too and that was that. We were back at what it was we were discussing earlier, and we're pretty close now, infact he's dating someone else.

so tell him the truth and do keep him if u guys have been genuine friends. if he cares for ur friendship, he will understand.

$$ Badmash Company$$
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maybee you could go "yeah ur such a good friend"

every once in a while, just to give him the idea that you think of him as "just a friend"

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man cud u stop sayin that
thas y i dun wanna follow ur advice
hez a gud guy n i dun wanna lose him

iznt there an easier way

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Shoor...
Hey may have chosen the friendship but that doesnt mean that deep down he wished you had feelings for him and maybe wishes for the day where you see the light...

PakiPride...
Lol do you want actual advice or only stuff you want to hear...lets break it down...
You can either let him do what he does and by not being clear with him you can be accused of leading the guy on...now this mean his hopes will grow and mean he will be even more upset when he realises you dont share those feelings...
You are clear with him about the fact that you arent interested...now what are the possible implications...if we want to be optimistic it will hurt him that you arent interested but he may decide to stay friends but there will still be that awkwardnsss for both of you and he'll also live in hope of you changing your mind...
Other way he can go is get hurt and then treat you like the badguy...he doesnt want to be friends anymore cos hes hurt and there might be an awkwardness between you and friends over the incident...

Whatever happens he will get hurt and whatever happens there will be awkwardness...

Just a question to you anyway,,,are you quite happy to be friends with a guy that you know would rather be with you than be friends with you...

Im not saying it cant work but remember you will be the friend he will be the one hoping you change your mind...

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dayum boi
jus wen i think of usin ur advice u say sumfin that holdz me bak

so i guess there aint no easy way outta this ****
so even if we do stay friends
it aint gonna b the same init