so i hav a friend
who iz cumin on 2 me
IT JUS AINT RIGHT
hez a realli gud friend n all
n i like him a lot…BUT AS A FRIEND
ive alwayz thot of him as a friend…not ONCE did i ever even TRY 2 think of him more thn a friend
again
i feel guilty
wth shud i do
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thats no solution 
tell him youre not interested and you dont wanna ruin your friendship… if that doesnt work.. get him flipped 
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^ Yes it is a solution…tell this guy to back off (if ur not into him) and use it as a learning experience for nxt time…its funny when girls are always so super duper close to their guy buddies and then freak out wehn the guy falls for them!! 
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So then we should also be wary of having female friends cuz they might be lesbians? If you're clear in your rules of the friendship, this problem doesn't occur...
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^ A girl having feelings for her female friends is not very common, at least with desis. A male having feelings for his female friends (and vice versa) is. Best way to avoid it is to simply not make friends of the opposite gender. There's nothing wrong with that. Be polite to them, friendly, talk to them, etc, but just maintain a certain dsitance. *It doesn't mean you need to dump the perfectly good friends you might alreayd have, but in the future, its best ot maintain distance so that it doesn't happen again with someone else.
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kay thas stupid
i got alotta gud guy friends
sum of em r even more close 2 me thn sum of my girlz
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So then we should also be wary of having female friends cuz they might be lesbians? If you're clear in your rules of the friendship, this problem doesn't occur...
exactly man
theres so much lesboz thez dayz
itz jus nasty init
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I dont know if the guy in question is desi… but none of my male friends (desi and nondesi) have overstepped his boundaries, they wouldn’t dare… desi guys unfortunately do tend to get desperate, so just choose wisely.. thats all.. its all about how you carry yourself in frontof em… dontget too free and its all good…
LOL- yeah man I was propositioned by lesbians or bis like 5 times :yukh:
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just choose wisely.. thats all.. its all about how you carry yourself in frontof em... dontget too free and its all good...
That's exactly what I' said...
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lmao yeh hez desi
but ive known him since ma skool dayzzz
we practically grew up wid each otherrr
hez alwayz bin 1 of my realli close m8z
LMAOO
omg lesboz tried hittin on me abt 4 timezz
am jus like bak off b4 i get a paki crew after u
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loll i totallyyy agree with Mrs.Saieen on every one of her posts! its true...maintain ur distace and dont get close with them!
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am confused
so u peepz tryin 2 tell me 2 jus stop all contact with him
dun hav him az a friend no more...?
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but ive known him since ma skool dayzzz we practically grew up wid each otherrr hez alwayz bin 1 of my realli close m8z
You just proved my point.
How old are yOu? If you're in high school or college, dump him.
If you're past college age (which I doubt) why not give it a shot (leading ot marriage of course)?
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whoa
hold uppp
i aint interested in him in THAT WAY
like i sed
jus a gud friend
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And why aren't you interested in him in that way ?
Sometimes u just gotta take hte risk
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pakipride.. DO NOT STOP TALKING TO HIM AND CUT HIM OFF just cuz he developed a crush on you.. come on.. that's insane.. just tell him u dont feel the same way (u sure u dont? friends turned lovers can work out great sumtimes) and u dont wanan fuk up the friendship u obviously cherish.. affter that if he stills keeps 'cuming on' to you then tell him to backoff..
DONT HAVE GUY FRIENDS <-- stupidiest advice ever.. lovers or siblings, are not the only 2 relationships a guy and a girl of similar age can have..i have many close female friends and i luv em to death more than my boys sometimes.. u just gotta find the right ppl with the right mentality...
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And why aren't you interested in him in that way ?
Sometimes u just gotta take hte risk
well im not sayin theres sumthin wrong with him
hez wayyy buff,sweet,caring etc..
so yea i dun think anythin iz wrong with him
umm......wat do u mean i gotta take the risk......r u sayin wat i think ur sayin...
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aww that poor guy:(...