jus friends

Naughty_by_Nature · April 22, 2007, 11:10am

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Well it doesnt really hold you back...its just the reality...if he has strong feelings for you then its an inevitability that it would hurt him...

koolkomal · April 23, 2007, 12:23am

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Well you never know..maybe He wont treat you like the badguy..

_paki_pride · April 23, 2007, 6:48am

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man u guyz giv sum GUD ADVICE
so i told him 2day
n he jus stood there silently lukin at me 4 a few minz
thn he started 2 luk soooooooooooooo pissed off n slammed the door wen he walked out.......

whoa.....pretty harsh....

so i jus wanna say a BIG THNK U 2 u ppl

Naughty_by_Nature · April 23, 2007, 11:04am

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Lol...now for the aftermath...

Hes gonna be pissed at you and hes gonna blame it on you for leading him on...make sure your friends know what the actual deal is...that he saw something that wasnt there and you didnt lead him on...

Also be wary of the fact that hes gonna generally be short with you and he'll probably give you **** about any boy your seen with...

Dont screw at the boy hes just hurt but just be wary of the fact that he will blame you for him being hurt...

_paki_pride · April 24, 2007, 1:11am

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well i found out our friendz already knew 4 awhile that he wz fallin 4 me
wth....they saw it n i didnt......man thas sad
but now wen i think of it
he alwayz did seem alil protective abt me
like wen sum random guy cumz up 2 me n askz 4 my number or askz me out
he usually got in between us n told the guy 2 bak off
but i alwayz jus thot he waz bein protective like any friend wud b

neway i jus wanna say THNK U SOOOOOOOOOO MUCH again coz 1 of my friends jus rang me abt 10 minz ago sayin hez pretty angry n didnt eat anythin 2day

koolkomal · April 24, 2007, 1:15am

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aww:(

Naughty_by_Nature · April 24, 2007, 4:39am

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Thats bad of your friends you know. The fact that none of them even discussed it with you. But even if they didnt discuss it with you they should have atleast set him straight.

Well hopefully your friends dont take sides in this. I can only hope the guy gets over you. Lol iv never let a girl stop me from eating but hey i suppose he must really like you.

Hang in there...

_paki_pride · April 25, 2007, 1:16am

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yh i wz pissed at 1st
but my galz dint think it waz THAT biga deal
thot it was a temporary thing
but my guy m8z yea i cud xpect em not 2 say anythin
god i know em 2 well
wen 1 of em told me wat he sed 2 him i waznt even 1 bit surprised
"yeh shes fit...go for it"
WTF i swear iz that all u guyz want 4rm a gyal
like EFFIN SERIOUSLY
all guyz r the same
lukz aint evrythin

nah my friends aint realli takin sides or anythin like that
tho sum say wat i did wasnt right........
umm......shud i apologize?
ughh am so confused

LOL ur kiddin me
a girl never stopped u 4rm eatin b4
lol wow
coz he iznt the 1st guy that dint eat anythin wen he got mad at me
o well...dun wanna get anorexic init

farishta2 · April 25, 2007, 1:45am

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i cant help but think, it’s YOU…i think it’s something you are doing that attracts guys..i mean, all these guys stalking you, asking for your number, honking at you and what not…maybe you should seriously try to think about what is it that you are doing wrong…

secondly..a girl should carry herself in such a manner that demands respect..and make them think not once, not twice but 10 times before they ask for your number or make comments about ur physical appearance.

and lastly, as Mrs. Saieen said, stop having guy friends! :halo:

Naughty_by_Nature · April 25, 2007, 5:57pm

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PakiPride...
No disrespect but your friends arent serious...
And as for 'shes fit so go for it' that just shows that certain boundaries dont exist in your friendships...
As for the guy i dont think hes stopped eating cos hes only interested in your looks i guess he is interested in you...
And lol yeah i enjoy my food...ypu seem to meet some OTT boys...

_paki_pride · April 26, 2007, 1:21am

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me
lol
yes ITS ME
im the 1 sayin “yoo guyzzzz cum size me up n take ma numbaaaaa i’ll make u happyyyyy”

ok Y wud i do or say ANYTHIN like that
i aint desp
n as far az i no…i aint doin ANYTHIN wrong…
so wat am i doin that u think iz wrong?

also many ppl commented on that guy friend thing
n itz not wrong(in my opinion) 4 many reasonz

_paki_pride · April 26, 2007, 1:28am

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lol i aint gonna disagree coz sum of my friendz aint even serious abt LIFE in general lmaoo but still we tight

yeaa so how long iz this angry thing gnna b
coz it seems like itz gonna stay this way 4 the res of my lyf
aww w/e i'll blame it on u if he never 4givez me aite?

yh many peepz tell me i attract the crzy 1z lol...im alil worried abt that

Afridi786 · April 26, 2007, 9:53pm

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lol young love.

Anyways u'll never be as good of friends as you were before. I know thats the case with mexicans at least, lol, desi's tend to hold a grudge for much much longer, so not looking good grrrrrl.

dildirani · April 26, 2007, 10:47pm

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What ever you do like people have previously said,your friendship will never be the same no matter which course you take

However if you choose not to form a more than friends relationship then your wording etc needs to be sensitive...its seems that he really cares for men...put yourself in his shoes and see how you would feel..

and if your under i dunno 18 just say taht you're too young..if he still cares and loves/likes you he will be around

expatobserver · April 30, 2007, 7:44pm

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I didn't get the feeling she cherishes his friendship or anything. Actually why shouldn't she offend him, han? Tell him you are not interested in him, now or ever. Toot gaya tau toot gaya saleka dil. Most smart guys know quickly if the woman is not intrested. This bewakoof needs to be hit on his head with the truth. Go ahead, break his heart. And let us all know when you do it. We will applaud!